Debate versus Discussion:  Why Debates are a Waste of Time!

Date:  September 20th, 2020.  I wrote this four years ago (Sometime in 2016) before Trump was elected. As you can see from last nights debate, the situation has only become worse. There was little or no discussion or clarification of issues. The debate was a debacle which gave a black eye to America and shows how far politics under Trump has descended into madness and hysteria. God save our country.

Date:  September 28th, 2023.  The debate I am referring to above was during the last presidential election in 2020.  After watching the Second Republican Debacle last night (Sept 27, 9PM EST), I decided to repost this blog AGAIN.  Believe me, it is still relevant.  These are not debates.  These are “Clown Shows.”  There is no question as to who the winner is.  The real question is “Who are the biggest clowns.”  Debates are useless but read on and you will find out why or at least why I think they are useless.

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(Listen to the Debate Song, while you read my blog this week.)

berniedebateOnce upon a time, I thought debates were the answer to the question of “how do we discover the truth?”  I thought that if you put two intelligent people together and each took opposing positions on an issue, that through the interplay of ideas the truth would emerge.  If you think about this a bit, it is the basis for our judicial system in America.  One side argues for the defendant, the other side argues for the prosecution or against the defendant.   It is also the basis for an academic exercise called Dialectical Research or Dialectical Inquiry.

dialectical inquiryA dialectical investigation is a form of qualitative research which utilizes the method of dialectic, aiming to discover truth through examining and interrogating competing ideas, perspectives or arguments.  This latter method is often applied through the use of case studies in which students or investigators discuss…

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For the “Love of It”

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She does it for the “Love of It.”

This just might be the most remarkable comment that anyone can make today about anyone else.  It is more than a comment.  It is adulation.  It is respect.  It is devotion.  It is a singularly exemplary behavior when you think about it.  I am not going to say that there are not lots of people who warrant such a compliment.  But in many respects, they are unsung heroes and heroines.

download (1)We are surrounded by people who only do things because they get paid for it or because they will be rewarded by power, fame, or fortune.  If the highest calling we can have in the world is to love others, then the next highest calling must be to perform some task or effort simply for the “Love of It.”  Not because we are going to receive any payment for it.  Not because we expect to get a promotion for it.  Not even because we expect to get a pat on the back for it.  Simply because we do it for the “Love of It.”

I would like to see an evening news report which starts off by honoring people who perform many thankless tasks simply for the “Love of It.”  The world is full of such people.  While I await such a news program, I would like to share a few of the stories and thankless tasks friends I know perform that have touched my life.  I would love to hear about stories or such efforts that you are familiar with in my comments section.

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Evelia Zajac

We first met Evelia through a mutual friend in Arizona City.  Evelia then told us about a good dentist she went to in Sonoita, Mexico.  Evelia is a Mexican citizen who has lived in the USA for over 60 years now.  Like many Americans, we now go down to Mexico for good dental service that is affordable.  We decided that since Evelia and Karen were both needing more dental service that we would carpool with Evelia to the dentist.  It is about a three-hour drive from our home to the dentist’s office.

Over time we discovered that Evelia did not only go to the dentist in Sonoita, but she also took supplies and food to an orphanage in the town.  Furthermore, she organized “caravans” at least twice a year to go down to Puerto Penasco in Mexico.  Puerto Penasco or Rocky Point has been called the Arizona Riviera.  Beautiful beaches, beautiful town, and a beautiful ocean.  It is a favorite destination point for USA tourists with a nice selection of waterfront hotels.

Evelia would stockpile clothes, food, and other materials during the year for both the orphanage in Sonoita and a St. Vincent DePaul charity center in Puerto Penasco.   Through her church and word of mouth many people learned of her charity trips.  Twice a year ten or more cars will show up at Evelia’s house on a Friday morning.  We will load all our trunks with her goods and other products that we all contribute and proceed together across the border in Lukeville and on first to the orphanage in Sonoita.  We will unload lots of food and sundries at the orphanage and then spend a little time visiting with the young children that live there.  Next, it is on to the St. Vincent DePaul in Puerto Penasco.  The remainder of our goods will be deposited at the donation center.  Often the people there will have a big pot of stew and we will sit around for some time talking to them before going on to our destination.

Our destination is most often the Hotel Playa Bonita.  Evelia will take care of reservations.  This is a beautiful hotel right on the beach with a very nice restaurant.  Most of the caravanners will spend the weekend eating, dancing, and listening to nightly music on the patio.  Some will go back on Sunday and some of us will stay until Monday.  Karen and I always like to go visit the old town section of Puerto Penasco with its many markets and tourist goods.  We never fail to help contribute to the Mexican economy.  We look forward to these trips every year.

If you are asking what Evelia does this for and why she does this, I will tell you.  It is simply for the “Love of It.”  We have known Evalia for over 12 years now and she is one of the most charitable and caring people you will ever meet.  She has no thoughts of remuneration or rewards for her efforts.  No matter where she sees anyone needing help, she extends her effort to help them.  Karen and I have been blessed to meet such a wonderful woman who always steps up when help is needed.

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S. Kwame Rice

Sylvester Kwame Rice is one of my best friends.  Kwame and I met when we were undergraduates together at Rhode Island College in 1971.  I was 25 and Kwame was 27.  We were both veterans, both in our first year of college and both attending on the GI Bill.  Kwame was a Navy veteran, and I was an Air Force veteran.

We had both signed up for one of the mandatory electives required for a B.S. degree.  I will never forget the class.  I do not remember the instructors name, but it was an intro 101 class in sociology.  The instructor had wanted to have a class with lots of discussion (or so he said.)  Well, we had quite a diverse group of students.  Gay students, African American students, White students, and Latino students.  We anxiously awaited the group discussion topic.  During the second class, the instructor announced that we would discuss Anti-Semitism.  We were astounded and appalled.  To the best of our knowledge, there were no Jewish students in the class.  We challenged our Professor but to no avail.

Several of us met after class and with Kwame and I as ringleaders we decided we were not going to stick with only discussions of Anti-Semitism.  We would bring up discussions of racism, sexism, homophobia, and any other type of discrimination we could think of.  We had not spent four years in the military to simply lay down and ignore what was happening in our own country.  Our discussions over the next semester proved quite enlightening and challenging.  Kwame and I became best friends and have remained so ever since.  I do not know what became of our instructor, but I think he might have decided to change career fields. 😊

Now if you do not know how Kwame received his middle name and the name he goes by, I want you to think about who Kwame Nkrumah was:

“Francis Kwame Nkrumah (21 September 1909 – 27 April 1972) was a Ghanaian politician, political theorist, and revolutionary. He was the first Prime Minister and President of Ghana, having led the Gold Coast to independence from Britain in 1957.[1] An influential advocate of Pan-Africanism, Nkrumah was a founding member of the Organization of African Unity and winner of the Lenin Peace Prize from the Soviet Union in 1962.” —- Wikipedia

My friend Kwame is also a fighter for freedom and justice.  He became a teacher, principal and is now a minister.  Kwame has spent the better part of his life trying to help make the message of Dr. Martin Luther King a reality.  An America where racism and prejudice does not exist.  Kwame could have made a great deal of money in many other career fields, but he never backs down from a challenge or speaking out when he thinks he should.  Now retired he still preaches regularly, and he serves as a minister at a Veterans Center in Rhode Island.  He is not paid for these efforts.  He does them for the “Love of It.”

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Karen Yvonne Persico

Karen is my wife and my best friend.  Karen spent fifty-five years as a nurse and 40 of those years as a Home Health Care nurse.  Fifty years ago, you did not go into nursing for the money.  Karen is one of the most frugal people I know.  Even if we have the money, she would rather shop at Goodwill than a Norstrand or Macys.  I have a hard time convincing her to buy herself anything.  While she may be frugal when it comes to spending money on herself, she is the opposite when it comes to spending it on other people.  Whenever I ask her about a donation to a charity, she is always ready to share what we can.  Not once in our thirty-three years of marriage, has she ever said that we could not afford a donation to help other people or causes.  She is always ready to help someone in need with time or money.

About fifteen years ago, while we were on a motorcycle trip to Arkansas from Minnesota, we stopped in a small town in Arkansas called Mountain View.  Upon arriving we found that the town was known as the Folk Music Capital of the World.  The middle of the town is organized around a park known as the Pick’in Place.  Every weekend, people from all over the countryside gather here to play mountain music together on guitars, violins, mandolins, and a rather interesting instrument called the Mountain Dulcimer.

The Dulcimer is a four or three stringed instrument somewhat like a guitar that you play on your lap.  It is relatively easy to make one and inexpensive to purchase.  It is a small lightweight instrument.  While watching the various groups that self-organize to jam together at the park, Karen immediately recognized the value of such an instrument.  Light weight, good sound quality, and relatively inexpensive, it would make an excellent instrument to take on our many trips together.  No problem to store it or carry it.

Karen spent some time trying to teach herself to play but finally found an instructor back home in Minnesota.  Since then, we have been to many music festivals together and the highlight for Karen is learning and playing with other Dulcimer people.

The costs to date for Karen’s musical hobby have included travel, instruction, dulcimer strings, tuners and of course the few dulcimers that Karen has acquired over the years.  You must have at least a baritone and a standard if you are going to play in a group.  I used to ask Karen when we were going to get our money back.  But you see, money was never the issue.  Karen plays for the “Love of It.”  She loves music and with being in a choir and playing with a Tucson Dulcimer Ensemble, she has the best of two worlds.  She plays music and helps others enjoy the music.

About every few months, the Tucson Dulcimer Ensemble plays at venues that include churches, assisted living centers, nursing homes, senior centers, hospitals. Many of these venues do not have a budget for music but that is no concern for Karen and her friends in the Tucson Dulcimer Ensemble.  You see they don’t play for money.  You guessed it, they play for the “Love of It.”

Now just for a second what if politicians, lawyers, auto salespeople and real estate developers worked for the “Love of It?”  Can you imagine what a different world it would be?

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If you liked this blog and it evoked memories of someone whom you really admire for their ability to do things for the “Love of It”, I would really appreciate your leaving a short story or message about this person and why you feel they warrant this description.    

 

My Top Ten Inspirational Songs of All Time and Why I love Them

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Each song is my favorite version.  Click on it and you can hear the song as I think it should be sung. 

  1. Amazing Grace — Etta James

Amazing grace how sweet the sound

That saved a wretch like me

I once was lost, but now I’m found

Was blind but now I see

Everyone knows this song.  It is one of the most popular hymns that was ever written.  However, I did not know the story behind it until a few years ago.  John Newton, the captain of a slave trading vessel repents for his crimes against humanity.  The song is evidence that humans can be redeemed from even the worst of crimes if they find the grace to seek forgiveness and redemption.

  1. The Impossible Dream — Richard Kiley

To fight for the right

Without question or pause

To be willing to march, march into Hell

For that Heavenly cause

A song that became popular because of the musical “Man of La Mancha.”  The musical was based on the story by Cervantes “Don Quixote.”  Outside of the Bible this might just be the most popular novel ever written.  It is the story of an old man who believed in justice and righteousness and set about a task to rid the world of evil.  A man who despite his age was going to do all that he could in his remaining years to set the world right.

  1. I Got Plenty O’ Nuttin — Willard White

Folks with plenty of nothing

They’ve got a lock on the door

Afraid somebody’s going to rob ’em

While they is out making more

What for?

This song is from the Gershwin Musical “Porgy and Bess.”  It speaks to the virtue of having nothing and being satisfied with that.  Being satisfied with love, song, and heaven.  Not striving for the things in life that will never bring happiness but only worry and misery.  I think it speaks to all of us who conditioned by Madison avenue want more and more until we die buried under all the stuff that we have spent our precious time accruing.

  1. The Toreador Song — Dimitri Hvorostovsky

Because it is a celebration of courage!

It is the celebration of people with heart!

Let’s go, on guard! Let’s go! Let’s go! Ah!

Toreador, on guard! Toreador, Toreador!

And dream away, yes, dream in combat

From the famous opera Carmen by Bizet.  The story of a soldier who sacrifices his life and career for the love of a frivolous but uber sexy woman.  Carmen seduces Don Jose but ultimately leaves him for the fascinating and heroic Toreador Escamillo.  Escamillo sings of what it is like to face death in the bull ring.  His message is a message of courage for all of us.  It harkens us to put aside our infatuation with life and take the kind of risks that make life worth living.  To live without the risk of death is not to live at all.

  1. Where Have All the Flowers Gone? — Pete Seeger

Where have all the young girls gone?

Long time passing

Where have all the young girls gone?

Long time ago

Where have all the young girls gone?

Taken husbands every one

When will they ever learn?

When will they ever learn?

Pete Seeger is one of the greatest troubadours of all time.  His career in singing and protesting injustice throughout the world lasted nearly eighty years.  It was a loss for the world when he passed away in 2014 at the age of 94.  Pete sang about racism, sexism, militarism and even a song about the brutality of boxing.  He sang about narrow minded people that cared little or nothing about the world around them.  In this song, he mourns for the soldiers that are caught up in the myopia of war.  A new war every day bespeaking the “racket” that General Smedley Butler declared war to be.  Don’t look for a “just” war.  There are no just wars.  Every war is an example of greed, stupidity, or shortsightedness.  Pete knew this well and dedicated his life to singing the truth about war and man’s inhumanity to man.

  1. Kol Nidrei — Angela Buchdahl

Prohibitions, oaths, consecrations, vows that we may vow, swear, consecrate, or prohibit upon ourselves –

from this Yom Kippur until the next Yom Kippuer, may it come upon us for good –

regarding them all, we regret them henceforth.

They will all be permitted, abandoned, cancelled, null and void, without power and without standing.

Our vows shall not be valid vows; our prohibitions shall not be valid prohibitions;

and our oaths shall not be valid oaths

Even if I were Jewish, this is a very complex song to explain or interpret.  I have looked at several interpretations of the words concerning vows and oaths taken.  The major issues are what oaths and promises can be legitimately taken and expected to be followed and what oaths and promises can be forgiven.  The distinctions between these two issues have created a great many controversies over the years.  Some even claim that it was a Jewish way to get out of loans or money borrowed.  This would lead to prejudice and misunderstanding on the part of non-Jews.

What I am impressed with by the song is the idea that we can be forgiven for oaths and vows that perhaps we should never have taken.  We can all swear to things that we later regret.  The idea of a day of forgiveness for these mistakes is very appealing to me.  The relationship between Yom Kippur, the Jewish Holy Day of Atonement and the Kol Nidre is interesting.  Yom Kippur begins in the evening, and the evening prayer (Maariv) is preceded by the special Kol Nidre prayer.  I think this points to a strong bond between atonement and forgiveness both in terms of sin and in terms of vows and oaths that were taken.   In any case, it is also a beautiful song to listen to.

  1. Motherless Child — Richie Havens

Sometimes I feel like a motherless child

Sometimes I feel like a motherless child

Sometimes I feel like a motherless child

A long way from home

A long way from home

When I first heard this song on the Woodstock Festival album, I thought he made it for me.  Somehow, for most of my life, I have felt like a motherless child.  This is strange since I had a mom.  Everyone described her as a saint.  She was never mean or abusive to me.  I remember during a counseling session confessing that I felt less when my mom died than I did when my father died.  He was a mean abusive man who made my life hell.  I dreamed of killing him but never got up the nerve to do it.

But why did I mourn my father’s death more than my mom’s.  My counselor recommended I read “Drama of the Gifted Child.”  She explained that a mother’s role is to protect her children and clearly my mom did not.  I never blamed her because I felt that she was living in her own hell with my father.  Nevertheless, I felt more like I never had a mom.  Hearing Richie Havens’ song, I felt like someone understood.

  1. The Bluebird of Happiness — Jan Peerce

When you find the bluebird of happiness

You will find perfect peace of mind

Knowing there’s a bluebird of happiness

And when he sings to you

Though you’re deep in blue

You will see a ray of light creep through

And so remember this, life is no abyss

Somewhere there’s a bluebird of happiness

Growing up with a father who loved opera, I was bound to hear Jan Peerce sing many of his repertoire.  He sang many wonderful songs.  However, this was my favorite.  I guess you could almost say that this song was pop, but it would never be recognized as such by today’s kids.  The “Bluebird of Happiness” spoke to my desire for peace of mind.  I had only to find the bluebird and all my sorrows and fears, and unhappiness would vanish.  I searched many years for this strange bird.  I have not found it yet but perhaps I am closer than ever before.

  1. The Peat Bog Soldiers — Paul Robeson

Up and down the guards are marching,

No one, no one can get through.

Flight would mean a sure death facing,

Guns and barbed wire block our view

But for us there is no complaining,

Winter will in time be past.

One day we shall rise rejoicing.

Homeland, dear, you’re mine at last.

No more the peat bog soldiers (Die Moorsoldaten)

Will march with our spades to the moor.

No more the peat bog soldiers

Will march with our spades to the moor.

I first heard this song by the fabulous Paul Robeson.  I was astounded.  He is so versatile.  He spoke out for liberty and justice no matter what language his songs were in.  Parts of this song are in English and parts in German.  Paul sounds like a native German speaker.  I looked up the history of this song and found that it was one of the most popular protest songs of all time in Europe.  It tells of the men in a concentration camp getting marched off each morning to work harvesting peat in the peat bogs.

This song was written by prisoners in Nazi labor camps in Lower Saxony, Germany.  With their shovels and pails, they euphemistically refer to themselves as “The Peat Bog Soldiers.”  These camps were established as soon as the Nazis gained power as a place to put their political enemies.  Many of not most of the men and women in these camps would die.  Nevertheless, they remained hopeful that someday Hitler’s reign would end, and they could march home in rejoicing.  Can we remain as hopeful in the crisis facing us today?  I ask myself that each morning when I wake up.

  1. Guantanamera — Joseito Fernandez

I am a truthful man from the land of the palm trees

Before dying I want to share these poems of my soul

My verses are a clear green, and they are a flaming crimson

I grow the white rose in June as in January

For the sincere friend who gives me his hand

And for the cruel one who would tear out my heart with which I live

I do not cultivate thistles nor nettles I cultivate a white rose

Guantanamera, guajira, Guantanamera

This song is one of the most popular songs of all time.  Few people would not recognize the tune and lyrics.  Not only has it been sung by hundreds of singers all over the world, but it has been featured in movies and other venues.  For instance: “The song is played in The Godfather Part II, at the café in Havana where Michael Corleone talks with his brother Fredo Corleone.  Richard Stallman wrote and sang a version titled Guantanamero, a commentary on the Guantanamo prison and the War on Terror.” — Wikipedia

Over the years, what started as a love song has evolved into a song about freedom and justice.  A song supporting class equality and freedom for the poor.  To me it also signifies seeking co-existence with our enemies as well as with our friends.  Besides the moral significance, it is hauntingly beautiful.  Parts of it are sung in Spanish and parts in English depending on the singer.

Well, there you have my top ten favorite inspirational songs.  I would love to hear what your favorite songs are as well.  Feel free to leave comments, lyrics, tunes or whatever you like.  Just be sure to let us know what Key you want us to sing it in.  😊

 

 

 

 

 

Only the Old Understand Aging

images (1)There are going to be those of you who will say that the title of this blog is preposterous.  A few years ago, I would have called “Bullshit.”  Funny how aging changes ones perspective.  I asked four friends all over the age of 70 what they thought about my proposition.  They all nodded sagely and said that they agreed 100 percent.  I then went to my spouse Karen who as a Home Care nurse spent many years working with the elderly.  I expected her to deny my proposition.  I was quite surprised when she also agreed.  I asked her why.  She explained as follows:

“I spent forty years working as a home health care nurse.  Most of my patients were elderly.  I think I helped many of them lead better lives.  However, when I look back, I can see that I did not really understand what they were going through with the aging process.  I only realized it when I had to go through it myself.”

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In January of this year, I decided to stop running the mountain trails that I had been running four or five times a week for the past 12 years.  I had fallen many times and six months earlier I had a fall and broke my finger.  I still ran for the next six months but suddenly I could just not bring myself to go up the mountains running anymore.  I experienced both pain and pleasure with this decision.  In some ways, it felt like a big weight had been lifted off my shoulders.  On the other hand, I missed the challenge and excitement of running rocky mountain trails.  I decided to stick to the flatlands and less rugged running trails.

old surferI mentioned this to some running friends of mine.  One of the younger ones asked me what I had done to prevent falling or to somehow adjust my attitude so that I could continue running.  I explained that over the years I had started running with knee pads, elbow pads, shatterproof glasses, and hand guards like roller bladers used.  I had the best trail running shoes that I could afford.  He asked if I would be willing to look for some new ideas so that I could return to the mountain trails.  I told him that I appreciated the offer but that I was finished with running rocky mountain trails.

Upon reflection, I realized that his attitude was like what many of us elderly experience from a wide range of sources.  From doctors to other “expert” advice givers, younger people assume that much of what afflicts the elderly is simply a state of mind.  How often have you heard any of the following”

  • You are only as old as you think you are.
  • Aging is an attitude.
  • Age is just a number. Life and aging are the greatest gifts that we could possibly ever have.
  • Aging is just another word for living.
  • Aging is an extraordinary process where you become the person you always should have been.
  • As soon as you feel too old to do a thing, DO IT.
  • Nobody grows old merely by living a number of years.

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The above quotes may be inspiring.  They may be motivating.  They may sound profound.  However, there is an element of denial in each of them.  A little like the quote “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.”  Something missing is the element of empathy.  We may not all be tough.  We may have lived a wonderful and useful life.  However, like a beautiful flower we all reach the end of our journey in this world.  Many of us may reach this end without ever really knowing “What kind of a person we should have been.”  We may be too sick, too fragile or simply too old to “Just do it.” 

We are told that we can stave off aging by yoga, senior fit exercises, strength exercises, cardio exercises, good diet, and nutrition.  We should give up smoking, overeating, and drinking.  All these suggestions are useful to some extent.  However, none of them will stop the aging process.  Aging is a process by which the body gradually loses its energy.  The cycle of life is birth, growth, and decline.  No species of animal or plant that ever graced this earth has escaped this cycle.  For some of us the cycle is shorter than for others.  Inspiring motivational quotes will not help you to avoid this cycle.  Nor will the many over the counter remedies for aging.  I did find this advertisement for five ways to look younger which exemplifies what my message here is.  I am dubious of the “modern solutions” that they suggest to combat aging.

“With the right solutions and strategies, we can lessen these signs (of aging) and stay looking our youthful best for longer.  Here, we’ll explore five key challenges men face as they age and the modern solutions available to help combat them.  — 5 Things That Make Men Look Old And What You Can Do To Look 10 Years Younger

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Aging is not combat.  There is a reconciliation that must inevitably come for all of us.  I once thought this was something to be avoided.  I now realize that only by embracing the inevitable can we live our last years on this earth with a sublime equanimity that would make Buddha proud.  We are going to age.  We are going to decline.  We will eventually succumb to death.  We can live our life to the fullest with a paradox that we must accept.  The paradox is that we should never give up, but we should also be prepared to let go.  The two processes are never black and white.  We need to hold on as long as we can, but we also need to gradually let go.  Life has always been a trial of balancing complex and competing priorities.  Aging presents us with one last trial.  You can go raging into the night if you like, but I would prefer to walk steadily towards whatever awaits me after this life is over.

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For some very poignant and moving pictures about aging, I have found none better than those by Tom Hussey. The following link will take you to some of his pictures. They will touch your heart.

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Thinking About Our Priorities

I wrote this blog 14 years ago and it is part of my Reflections on Time which I eventually self-published as The “Sigh of Time” on Amazon.  366 Daily Reflections to help you think about the important role that time plays in your life.  Each reflection include questions to help you think about the issue. 

Looking back this one sounds a little preachy but I still think it has some merit.  Hope you enjoy it 

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Writing the Big Lie

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The eighth circle of Hell in Dante’s Inferno is for the sin of fraud. Generally, this includes counterfeiting, hypocrisy, lying, stealing, and more.

 What is the punishment in circle 8?

Circle 8 of Hell in Dante’s Inferno has ten different areas for fraudsters. Dante describes these as separate ditches or trenches within the circle. In the first ditch, demons whip pimps and seducers. In the second, flatterers are buried in sewage and feces. In the third, “simonists” – those who abuse church power – are buried upside down and their feet are burned. In the fourth, sorcerers or fortune tellers are forced to walk around with their heads on backwards. In the fifth, the politically corrupt are buried in boiling tar. In the sixth, religious hypocrites are forced to wear torturously heavy church robes. In the seventh, snakes bind thieves’ hands behind their backs and torture them in various other ways. In the eighth, those who lied for personal gain are turned into living flames. In the ninth, people who sowed division walk in a circle. When they pass a certain demon, it chops their head or limbs off – their wounds slowly heal as they walk around again, and the demon chops them again when they come back around. In the tenth and final ditch, counterfeiters are punished with various afflictions like scabies, itching, or thirst.  —- From Study.Com by Angie Armendariz, Arielle Windham, and Jenna Clayton.                         

Christians believe that everyone is a sinner.  That is why every week at a Christian church you will hear an aisle full of practitioners asking forgiveness for their sins.  The times I accompany my spouse to church, I am reluctant to confess any sins or to ask for any forgiveness.  I can’t help but wonder what I should ask forgiveness for.  Many the day I regret something I have said or done but seldom do I think this makes me a sinner.  When they say that Christ died for my sins, I wonder how he could have known the stupid and sometimes malicious things I actually have done?  Perhaps this is an example of a Big Lie.

Writers all lie.  Some more than others.  There are lies of omission.  There are lies of commission.  There is hyperbole.  There is obfuscation.  Writers of course are not the only ones who lie.  The government lies.  The army lies.  The CIA lies.  Even your parents probably lied to you more than you think.  Sometimes we lie to get our point across.  Sometimes we lie to protect another.  Sometimes we lie to protect ourselves.  Sometimes we lie because of erroneous beliefs, common but false tropes, misinformation, and disinformation.

The media today is one big melting pot of lies.  CNN, MSNBC, FOX News, Breitbart and all the other major networks are cesspools of daily lies.  Left wing, right wing, Democrats, Independents, Republicans, John Birchers all lie.  Studies show that average people also lie fairly regularly.  “Do as I say and not as I do” is one form of lying.  The biggest lies we engage in are lies to ourselves.  Self-talk is full of lies.  “I would never do that.”  “I get better every day.”  “I get enough exercise.”  “I am a follower of Jesus Christ.”  Some studies such as noted below show that the assumption that most people are liars is not exactly true.  Many people are opportunistic liars.

“People also have good and bad lie days, when they tell more or fewer lies than is typical for them, Levine says.  People do not lie for the most part, he says, a few pathological liars aside. Also, for the most part, people do not lie unless they have a reason to.  Our daily communication demands are a big driver for most of us on how honest or dishonest we are,” Levine said.New research shows most people are honestby Shannon Thomason

On the subject of writers as liars, I include advertisers, marketers, political speech writers, media script writers and even blog writers.  We are all guilty of Big Lies.  The following quote is attributed to the Nazis Joseph Goebbels, but it was also written in Hitler’s Mein Kampf:

“If you tell a lie big enough and keep repeating it, people will eventually come to believe it. The lie can be maintained only for such time as the State can shield the people from the political, economic and/or military consequences of the lie. It thus becomes vitally important for the State to use all of its powers to repress dissent, for the truth is the mortal enemy of the lie, and thus by extension, the truth is the greatest enemy of the State.”

Upon reading the above quote, it might give you some pause when it comes to believing anything that comes out of the mouth of a press secretary or any other official State representative.  To repeat “The Truth is the greatest enemy of the State.” My father once said, “Believe nothing of what you hear and half of what you see.”  This might have been the best advice that I have ever received.  This is why all teachers today say that they believe Critical Thinking skills are the most important tools we can teach students.  Unfortunately, this is also a Big Lie.  It is something that might be believed but it is not practiced.

I call a Big Lie something that is truly and wonderfully believed either by the writer or speaker.  Unfortunately, they may not adhere to it in practice or in their daily lives.  They talk and write a good game, but they do not deliver.  As Martin Luther King said about the “Declaration of Independence”,

“When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men — yes, Black men as well as White men — would be guaranteed the unalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.  It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked insufficient funds.”

9780996883252_p0_v1_s1200x630Our Founding Fathers wrote a Big Lie and African Americans have been paying for it ever since.  Women and other minorities were not even mentioned in the Big Lie, but it applied to them as well.  Lies can be committed because people believe things that do not mesh with reality.  Lies are a coverup for many government actions that our politicians do not see as palatable for the public.  The Gulf of Tonkin incident, the overthrow of Salvador Allende, the weapons of mass destruction in Iraq are only a few of the lies that have been fed to the American people.  Of course, our politicians would have us believe it is for our own good.  The really sad part is that the media is always complicit in these lies by reporting them with little or no verification of their truthfulness.  Some of these lies fall into what I call the “Realm of Taboos.”  Taboos are a good place to look for Big Lies.

A Taboo is defined by the Online Oxford dictionary as, “A social or religious custom prohibiting or forbidding discussion of a particular practice or forbidding association with a particular person, place, or thing.”  Taboos arise when reality clashes with Big Lies.   For instance, it is a Big Lie to think that Americans always fight a virtuous war.  Our government wants us to believe that any war we fight is to protect the right to Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness.  It would not do any good to let the public know that most of our wars have been wars of aggrandizement.  Wars fought to protect our economic interests.  Thus, we develop Taboos that prohibit subjects from being discussed.  This saves government and politicians from being exposed as Big Liars.

One particularly egregious lie is that someone is never too old to hold public office.  We have a plethora of “old” politicians and judges who would be better retired.  The average age of senators in the 118th Congress is 64 years old.  There are 54 senators older than 65.  I am 77 years old in two weeks and my days have dwindled down to about four to five ENERGY hours per day.  The rest of my day is spent napping, reading, watching TV, or just enjoying a good Bourbon.  Many of the politicians holding office probably cannot say that they could do any better than I could.  But no one has yet disputed their right to run for office.

“American society on the whole fears aging. It is a culture that works overtime to stave off death, even while having one of the lowest life expectancies in the world compared to the amount spent on health care every year. It is considered taboo to bring up age in a variety of contexts, including whether or not someone is still hardy enough for the rigors of public service after more than eight decades on the planet.” — Aug. 31, 2023, by Hayes Brown, MSNBC Opinion Writer/Editor

imagesSo, we tell a Big Lie that age does not matter.  And we have no one willing to challenge that lie.  However, it is not only physical aging that puts people at a disadvantage, but mental aging as well.  Many older people are stuck in a past generation of ideas and values that are no longer relevant today.  Values and cultures change over time and people born in the 40’s and 50’s are less likely to understand and adapt to the changes that daily life brings.  If you can only see the “Good Old Days”, you may be suffering from old age.  The average age of Nobel Prize winners when they conducted their prize-winning research is 44.1 years.  As for writing, “According to experts, we start becoming more creative and prolific in whatever field of art or study we work, around the age of 25.  Most people reach their peak after the age of 35 or in their 40s. This is when they produce their most valuable work.  After the age of 45, most artists’ prolificity starts slowly declining.” — The Adroit Journal

Conclusions:

  • Big Lies are part of reality.
  • People often do not want to know the truth.
  • Politicians believe that people cannot handle the truth.
  • Big Lies are told to conceal realities that will adversely impact governments.
  • We all lie sometimes. Some of us more than others.
  • Writers have a responsibility to tell the truth as much as possible.
  • We cannot always see the culture of lies that we are caught in.
  • Follow my father’s advice: “Believe nothing of what you hear and half of what you see.”
  • When you do not believe something, gain insights from 360 Degree Thinking.

360 Degree Thinking can be defined as, “being cognizant of ideas and insights coming from a variety of sources, both internally and externally, and understanding the critical interconnectedness of these ideas.” It is about your ability to view ideas and information coming from all sides and on all levels in all timeframes (for example, short, medium and long-term priorities).   —- Ideas for Action