Now that the Indians Gone – You Don’t Have to Feel Guilty Anymore.   

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I wrote the following blog 9 years ago.  I decided to republish it after reading the news (Casa Grande Dispatch, March 5-6, 2024) about a federal court panel voting 6-5 to uphold a lower courts denial of an injection to halt the transfer of land in Northern Pinal County for a copper mining project.  The land would be given to a Copper mining company in and area named Oak Flats that was ceded to the Apache Indians by an 1854 treaty.  The Indians in Northern Arizona went to court to contest this denial of their property rights and lost in both a lower court and a federal court.  If you are one of those who say “Well, yes, its too bad we screwed the Indians in all those treaties years ago BUT times have changed.” 

Well, my friend, don’t count on it.  We are still screwing the Indians.  This is the second time in ten years, I have seen former treaties with local tribes stepped on and totally abrogated.  We are still fucking the Indians 150 years later.  Some things never change.  The kicker is that the company petitioning to take the Indian land for a copper mine, is a foreign owned company named Resolution Copper owned by a conglomerate of investors mostly Australian and British.  The spokesperson for this company told the news that “They will continue to work with and listen to the concerns of the local tribes.”  I have made a few updates and changes to my original blog but I think it is still salient and has merit.

(Please listen to Buffy Sainte-Marie’sNow that the Buffaloes Gone”)

war protests1964.  A time of increased social consciousness:  Civil Rights marches.  Women’s Rights marches.  Free Speech marches.  Protests in the grape fields.  The Indian Movement.  The Free Love Movement.  The Whole Earth Movement.  Anti-war marches.  Lots of social commentary and inspiring folk songs written during this period by musicians such as Bob Dylan, Pete Seeger, Buffy St. Marie, Sixto Rodriguez, Richie Havens, Leonard Cohen, Country Joe McDonald, Peter, Paul and Mary, not to mention hundreds of others.   (Many others came before these, like Paul Robeson and Woody Guthrie.)

Can you remember the times
That you have held your head high
And told all your friends of your Indian claim
Proud good lady and proud good man
Your great great grandfather from Indian blood came
And you feel in your heart for these ones

hippies1The Baby Boomers (I sadly must include myself in this category) were going to change the world.  But now Bob Dylan does commercials for General Motors.  Jane Fonda married one of the richest capitalists in the world and makes a fortune on her exercise videos.   Rennie Davis became a venture capitalist.  Lenny Bruce died of an overdose.  Abbie Hoffman committed suicide.  Jerry Rubin became a business executive.  To quote Mr. Rubin: “I know that I can be more effective today wearing a suit and tie and working on Wall Street than I can be dancing outside the walls of power.”   Countless other “counter-culture heroes” joined the “establishment” and de facto “sold out.”

old hippiesFor my part, I never trusted any of these “revolutionaries.”  It is easy to be counter-culture when you’re “daddy’s rich and your mommas good looking.”  I knew I would have to earn a living and while my sympathies lie with the sentiments of these “revolutionaries,” my stomach lie with eating three meals a day.  They say an army marches on its stomach.  I guess a revolution will also rise or fall on the bellies of the revolutionists.  My mother being a part-time store clerk at Woolworths and my father being a postman (In the sixties there were no post-people) did not leave a lot of table scraps left over to feed my revolutionary spirit.

Oh it’s written in books and in song
That we’ve been mistreated and wronged
Well over and over I hear the same words
From you good lady and you good man
Well listen to me if you care where we stand
And you feel you’re a part of these ones

I sold out.  Joined the military.  Served honorably.  Got married.  Got a job with a major corporation and have lived happily ever after.  Except for the guilt, at not manning the barricades, my life has been pretty normal.  No jail.  No drug offenses.  No charges for treason.  No flag burning.  No tear gassing.   How much do I have to pay for taxes this year?

Nevertheless, I do get twinges of guilt from time to time (noted above).  I feel sorry for the Indians.  I feel sorry for the poor.  I feel sorry for the underprivileged.  I feel sorry for minorities.  I feel sorry for the immigrants at the border.  I frequently donate to selected charities, which I suppose helps to assuage my guilt.  I would do more but I am too busy trying to pay my bills. Toys, cars, homes, vacations, clothes do not pay for themselves.

capitalistI know I am like many others.  I regret how we treated and still treat the Indians.  But I don’t want to give the country back to them.  I regret how we treated African Americans but although I am for some type of reparations, I am not out agitating for them.  I would love to do more for the environment but I find it very difficult to remember what plastic pails to throw out and which ones go in which bin.  I want to help the global drought but I like my showers each morning.  I am sorry we put Japanese Americans in internment camps but I don’t know if I would have done anything differently if I had been president in 1941.

When a war between nations is lost
The loser we know pays the cost
But even when Germany fell to your hands
Consider dear lady, consider dear man
You left them their pride and you left them their land
And what have you done to these ones

Lynching_of_Laura_Nelson,_May_1911On my way to my exercise club (LA Fitness) this morning, I was listening to some radio commentator talking about how unfair it was too have put so many Japanese American citizens into what he called prisons for the duration of the war.  He called it a “tragic mistake.”  I thought about all of the “tragic mistakes” we have made in this country from slavery, to lynchings, to Jim Crow laws, to segregation laws, to water rights laws, to reservation laws, to the Trail of Tears, to anti-gay laws, to broken treaties, to anti-immigration laws, to laws protecting the rights of corporations over the rights of citizens.  We have made dozens if not hundreds of “tragic mistakes” throughout American history.  The good thing is we always feel really bad about them later on.  Usually when it is too late to do anything about them.

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indian-casinoTrue, we screwed the Indians royally but now every Thanksgiving we can feel sorry about it when we remember that they gave us corn on the cob and helped feed us until we could sustain ourselves.  True we made a big mistake when we told them they could have all of the land west of the Mississippi.  Then we made another big mistake when we told them they could own the land and mineral rights which we gave them when we put them on reservations.  Today, we are rapidly realizing that it might not have been such a good idea to give them Casino rights.  This is a “tragic mistake” that is being rectified in many states as I speak.  Capitalism and profits always “Trump” everything else in the “Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave.”

We made another tragic mistake when we told women they would have control over their reproductive rights.  However, many noble Americans have taken to bombing abortion clinics and shooting abortion doctors until our noble politicians can rectify this tragic mistake. (As I edit this former blog, this “rectification” has already taken us back hundreds of years.)

There is no getting away from the fact, that we freed the slaves.  Some would regard this as a tragic mistake compounded by giving them the vote and letting them marry whom they chose.   Of course, we have many loyal Americans doing all they can to put the “Negro” BACK in his or her place.

welcomeimmigrantsbuttonthumbFinally of course, we let all those dam immigrants into the country.  From the Indians point of view, this has been the most tragic mistake of all history.  We let the British, Dutch, French, Irish, Scottish, Germans, Swedes and Italians in.  Then we let the Somalians, Hmong, and Russians in.  Did I forget the Japanese, Koreans, Chinese and Filipinos?   Don’t worry, I have not forgotten the Latinos.  It is just that this last tragic mistake is one that many noble Americans are still trying to rectify.  Right down here in Arizona, it is practically a right to help capture would be Latino immigrants and send them back over the border.  Some other loyal Americans are demanding that we continue to build a large retaining wall to insure that they stay south of our borders.  Of course, the wall must be porous enough to allow US tourists to visit Mazatlán, Cancun, Acapulco and other great South American vacation sites including Algodones for cheap but quality dental work.

Has a change come about Uncle Sam
Or are you still taking our lands
A treaty forever your senators sign
They do dear lady, they do dear man
And the treaties are broken again and again
And what will you do for these ones

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It is a good thing to be able to learn from your tragic mistakes.  I have a friend whose motto is: “there are no mistakes, only lessons to be learned.”  So what are the lessons, we could and should have learned from all of these “tragic mistakes” that we have made.  I will suggest three lessons.

First Lesson:  Be sure to make your tragic mistakes with people who have less power than you do.  If you are going to screw someone, be sure they do not have a gun, slingshot, bow and arrow or any other kind of an equalizer.  As Samuel Colt said:  “God made men, but I made them equal.”

Second Lesson:  Always look to the past before declaring a tragic mistake.  Never look to present actions that might imply current tragic mistakes because there might still be time to rectify them.  If you only look at past tragic mistakes, you can express sympathy and remorse and not be overly inconvenienced with issues like giving the country back or financial remuneration.

Oh it’s all in the past you can say
But it’s still going on here today
The government now want the Navaho land
That of the Inuit and the Cheyenne
It’s here and it’s now you must help us dear man
Now that the buffalo’s gone.

Lyrics by: Buffy Sainte-Marie – Now That the Buffalo’s Gone

Third Lesson:  Always try to deny responsibility and get the injured parties to move on.   Make it clear that all of this stuff was in the past and they need to get on with life.  Talk about how things are different now.  We have no more racism because Obama was president.  We have no more Indian problems because we let them run the casinos.  We have no more women’s issues because we gave them the vote.  We have no immigration problems because we have lots of immigrants already in the country.  We have no more Gay problems because they are all getting to marry who they want now.

So you see, it’s clear all the problems that people had during the sixties have gone away.  What about Global Warming you say?  No problem, the Republicans are in charge the House now and they don’t believe in it so it will simply disappear like the mirage they say it is.  Did you say, Oil Depletion Allowance, Solar Energy?  No problem, the Oil companies have it under control.  You can trust them to insure that the environment will stay clean and oil will remain affordable.

Time for Questions:

What policies are we pursuing today that we will regret 50 or 100 years from now?  Does guilt and remorse matter if we do not make substantive amends?  What groups do you think we need to make amends to?  Why or why not?  What kinds of amends would you suggest we make to African Americans, Mexican Americans, Asian Americans, Gays, Native Americans?  How can we avoid having to say “I am sorry” in the future?

Life is just beginning.

“Every man is guilty of all the good he did not do.”   ― Voltaire

 

PS:  When I wrote this blog 9 years ago, I used Buffy St. Marie’s song and lyrics to illustrate some of my points.  More recently she has come under severe criticism for one of the cardinal sins today.  She has misappropriated Native American Culture by falsely claiming to be Native American by birth.  I realize that for many this is an egregious sin. 

The chief of the tribe that she claimed to be from has said that she would be forgiven if she acknowledged the appropriation and asked for forgiveness.  For my part, I find it necessary to forgive her regardless of what she says (perhaps easier for me since I am not a Native American) because of the awareness of the Indian issues that she has brought to my attention.  Buffy stood up for Indians and denounced the hypocrisy of White people in their treatment of Native Americans.  She is among several that I have to thank for what I would like to think is my more progressive attitude towards the rights of our Indian tribes from Maine to California.   

I Lost White Friends When I Finally Spoke Out

Story by LeRon L. Barton

I found this article this morning and thought it was well worth sharing.  It is most thought provoking and speaks to the ongoing effort to rid our nation of Racism.  I have heard many people say “Why can’t we forget color” or “Why can’t we all get along.”   I think a deeper understanding of Racism in the USA brings more depth to such questions.  We have examples of race hatred and hatred for others all over the world that has gone on for centuries. 

Sometimes this hatred is based on race and sometimes on religion, gender or ideology.  At the core of most hatred is a lack of understanding.  A lack of compassion for those with different skins or thoughts.  A feeling that our IDEAS and our SKIN COLOR makes us better than others.  I think this article helps us all think about racism more deeply and what we can each do in our lives to eradicate this curse from humanity. 

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I Lost White Friends When I Finally Spoke Out Story by LeRon L. Barton

The original article by Mr. Baron is followed by hundreds of comments.  Many agree with Mr. Barton and many disagree.  I have selected two comments that represent both sides of the disagreement.  What do you think?  

Sheener Homer

From reading this article, I truly believe that the author reached a turning point in his life. He finally realized who his real friends were. If individuals of different backgrounds loved, respected, and valued you as an individual, they would try to understand life from your perspective. In a world where a majority of the population despises Black people, it is important to instill Black pride in Black people. At times I feel like the world is governed by policies and beliefs that are designed to keep certain individuals oppressed. Sometimes it feels like when your views don’t match the majority, you are considered a “danger” or “militant”. It’s unfortunate. #TMC

Greg Franklin

“I believe that Black people live in a country that constantly tries to strangle every bit of self-respect, pride, individuality, love, and life out of them. It is an everyday challenge for us to maintain our mental health.” Patently false.  Too many Black people have made it in all walks of life, professional and blue collar.  We twice elected a Black president.  Years of affirmative action and DEI have made it easier to succeed.  This article, while well intended, is just another in a long line of articles showing an increasing racism villainizing white people.

Doing my morning run today, this is what I see in a neighbors yard. He lives four houses down from me. Do you suppose he served in the Civil War? His next door neighbor is a good friend of mine who is African American. I have often asked my friend how he deals with this. How do you think any Black person in this country deals with this? How would you deal with this?

Mission to Mars:  The First Colony

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Star Date 2075- 01

Mission Control.  “Countdown, zero plus 22 minutes.  Prepare yourselves for blastoff.”

“I can’t believe we are getting ready to blast off for Mars” said Adam, the Starship Captain

“Yes, after months of preparation, we are finally going to setup the staging for the first Mars colony” said Eve, the Starship Co-Captain.

“Well, I think we are going to be doing a lot more than that” replied Adam

“More, like what” said Eve

“To multiply like rabbits of course” Adam dumbfoundedly replied.  “Why do you think that we were picked for this mission?

“Mr. Musk never said anything about multiplying” said Eve.  “I thought I was picked because I had a Ph.D. in Macro-Cosmic Physics.”

Adam just shook his head.  He was not sure if he should say anything more at this time.  He was certain that all the profiling and psychodynamic training would kick in once they were in orbit.  To be sure, Eve had always seemed a bit distant during their months of training, but Adam assumed she was just shy and nervous.  He would dazzle her once they were in space.

Eve was lost in her own thoughts.  If this jerk thinks that I am planning to “breed” with him, he has another think coming.  As far as I am concerned he can breed with himself.

Mission Control: “Prepare for liftoff!”

Mission Control: “Liftoff was successful, and you are now in transit to Mars.  The journey is estimated to take only 9 months with the new hydro-plasma boosters.  Please take one of your extended dormant pills.  These were created in our bio-tech lab and are calculated by your biomass to help you sleep roughly a week at a time.  Your remaining time can be filled with flight checks and any recreation you can think of.”

Star Date 2075- 08

“Eve are you awake” said Adam, “Yes” replied Eve, “I have been awake for nearly a day now.  I was wondering how much longer you would sleep.”

“Well,”, said Adam, “We need to start reviewing control procedures and vessel checks.  I would recommend one week for procedures and then back to sleep mode for a week.  Can you prepare us something to eat while I go to the head?”

“What do I look like” said Eve, “Chef Boyardee?”  “Or is your arm broke or something?”

“Ok, I did not mean to be offensive.  I guess we could take turns with the meal preparations” replied Adam

“Good guess lover boy” said Eve.

Star Date 2075-90

“Ninety days in transit so far and 180 to go.  I am getting tired of this routine.  What do you say we spice things up a little Eve?”

“What did you have in mind?” said Eve

“How about a little strip poker?” said Adam

“How about you take ten dormant pills and go to sleep for the rest of the journey?” said Eve

“This is not at all what I expected from you” said Adam.  “You are not being very cordial or responsive.  We have an obligation to help colonize Mars and we could have some fun doing it.”

“Your idea of fun is not the same as mine.”

Adam moves forward to put his hand around her in a gesture of friendship

“Keep your hands off of me” said Eve

Star Date 2075-120

“Mission Control from Mars Colony Mission, this is Eve speaking.”  I am having trouble getting Adam to keep his hands to himself.  I have woken up several times and found him groping me.  Do you have any suggestions?”

Mission Control:

“Eve, this is Mission Control.  Suggest you play along and see what happens.  Are you aware that there are condoms if needed packed aboard your supplies?”

Eve aghast “Who were the condoms for?”

Mission Control: “Just one of the supplies we thought might come in handy on a long voyage.”

Eve: “Over and out”

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Star Date 2075-150

“Adam to Mission Control, emergency, emergency!”

Mission Control: “We have you on communications Adam.  What is the problem?”

Adam: “Eve asked me to check on the outside primary antenna.  I suited up and went out to check things out.  When I tried to get back into the capsule, she would not let me back in.”

Mission Control:  “Eve, we have word from Adam that he is locked outside the capsule.  What is going on?”

Eve, “What is going on is that he took that thing out of his pants and started waving it in my face.  I told him to put it back where it belonged, but he would not listen.  So, I told him that we were having a problem with the main antenna and would he check it.  I am not going to let him back in.”

Mission Control: “Eve, this is no way to start a Martian colony.  Couldn’t you make a sacrifice for the greater good of Earth and the people who love and admire you here?”

Eve:  How come no one ever mentioned that I was supposed to be part of the colonization process?

Mission Control:  Eve, have you ever heard of the chicken and the pig story.  The chicken gave eggs to the farmer and was involved but the pig gave bacon and was committed.  We thought you would be committed to this process and not just involved.”

Eve: “Did you ever see the size of his dick?  It is smaller than a pencil.  If you wanted my commitment couldn’t you get someone with a bigger dick?

Mission Control: “Eve, what would it take to make you a team player?”

Eve: “Well, that all depends.  I will need to sleep on that one a little.”

Mission Control: “Fair enough Eve, but could you let Adam back in while you sleep on it?  After all, No Adam, No Eve, No colony.

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And so, Adam and Eve patched up their differences.  Eve had forty-five children while on Mars and was given by Mission Control, the title “Queen of Mars.”  Adam was relegated to be her consort.  More earthlings were sent on subsequent missions to Mars and Eve ruled that all. Women could have as many husbands as they wanted to.  Men could not have more than one wife.

Eve established a matriarchy on Mars and within two hundred years, the colony had grown into a million people.  Men cooked and cleaned and served women when called.  Word got back to earth that the colony had gone rogue.  Eventually, war broke out between Mars and Earth.

The war went on for over 500 years.  The final outcome affected the entire universe since before the end of the war many other sentient species had been identified.  Most of the identified alien species sided with the Martian women and the planet Earth was defeated.  The Earth soon faded into obscurity and was vaguely remembered only as a footnote in Martian Ancient History.

On Earth, Musk was remembered infamously as the man who wanted to start a Martian Colony.  No one bothers to clean the bird shit off of his statue anymore.

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I wrote the above story to poke some fun at a subject that is really not very funny to me.  Call me a luddite if you want to, but I think the entire idea of a “Manned” Mars colony is a preposterous waste of time and money.  NASA and Musk will spend billions if not trillions of dollars to put someone on Mars and do you know what?  In Pinal County, in Arizona City, they took out our recycling bins two years ago because they said “The county cannot afford them.”

We can spend trillions of dollars on rockets and so called scientific experiments but we cannot spend one nickel to help with waste and garbage recycling in the county where I live.  The money for both endeavors comes out of my taxes.  My choice is to spend money to save the planet we live on FIRST and then Mars later.  In the meantime, the most I would support for any Martian project would be robot manned space flights.  By the way, they say valuable experiments can only be done by humans and not robots.  Why is that?  What kind of “valuable experiments?”  Robots are developing at a rapid pace.  If we have the will, we can develop robots to handle any physical tasks that human beings can.  It makes more sense to send them to Mars and not live humans.  Following is a passage from a paper by Professor Ross King from Cambridge’s Department of Chemical Engineering and Biotechnology, who originated the idea of a ‘Robot Scientist’.

“Today, laboratory automation is steadily advancing, and robots can now carry out most of the laboratory tasks that humans can. We are also now seeing the emergence of the ‘Cloud Lab’ concept. The idea is to provide laboratory automation at scale and remotely, with scientists sending their samples to the cloud lab, using a computer interface to design and execute their experiments.”

“And then there are AI Scientists: AI systems integrated with laboratory automations that are capable of carrying out the closed-loop automation of scientific research (aka ‘Robot Scientists’, ‘Self-driving Labs’). These systems automatically originate hypotheses to explain observations, devise experiments to test these hypotheses, physically run these experiments using laboratory robotics, interpret the results, and then repeat the cycle.” — “The future of science is automation”, Professor Ross King, University of Cambridge, Feb 26, 2024

Don’t Wait to Tell Them!

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Tell them that you love them

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Tell them how much they mean to you

Tell them how much you admire them

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Tell them how special they are

Tell them how special they make you feel

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Tell them how beautiful they are

Tell them how intelligent they are

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Tell them today

Tell them this morning

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Tell them why they are special

Tell them why you need them

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Tell them how much you love them

Tell them why you love them

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Tell them how they brighten the world for you

Tell them how they brighten the world for others

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Tell them everyday

Tell them when you wake up

Tell them before you go to sleep

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Don’t be stingy with your praise

Let your praise be efficacious

Let your praise be effusive

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Share the light of your love

Share the beauty of your love

Don’t hide one atom of your love

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Tell them what is in your heart

Tell them what is in your head

Tell them what is in your soul

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Tell them as though your life depended on it

Tell them as though you may never see them again

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Don’t wait until they can’t hear you say it

Don’t wait until you have to say, “I wish I had told them”

Don’t wait until it is too late

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them now

Please, for your sake and theirs

Don’t wait to tell them

Tell them Now!

The above thoughts came to my mind one day after noticing how much people liked being given a compliment, told that they were loved or admired for something that they had done.  It positively makes people beam and warm inside when you praise or acknowledge them.  There is nothing you can do for anyone as powerful as telling them why you love them or what makes them special.  I was told many years ago that praise is free and hugs are free so why be stingy with them.  I found as I got older that it was easy to keep these thoughts inside myself.  If I did let them out, I would abbreviate what I felt for someone without going the extra inch to say why or how I felt that way about them.  Many precious moments where I missed the opportunity and it will never be recovered.  Don’t wait until you are 77 to discover the power of sharing your love and your feelings for others.

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In Defense of Not Voting for the Lesser of Two Evils.

downloadThis years election is going to force people to decide between the lesser of two evils.  Trump is undoubtedly the winner in being the most evil person to ever run for president in the USA.  His former Chief of Staff said that Trump was the most vile man he had ever met.  Kelly declared:

“A person that thinks those who defend their country in uniform, or are shot down or seriously wounded in combat, or spend years being tortured as POWs are all ‘suckers’ because ‘there is nothing in it for them.’  A person that did not want to be seen in the presence of military amputees because ‘it doesn’t look good for me.’  A person who demonstrated open contempt for a Gold Star family—for all Gold Star families—on TV during the 2016 campaign, and rants that our most precious heroes who gave their lives in America’s defense are ‘losers’ and wouldn’t visit their graves in France.”  — The New Republic, Oct 2023

Running against a man who would further erode what democracy we have left in this country is a coward who is afraid to take on Netanyahu and his US lobbies.  Bernie Sanders had the courage to say that he would not give Israel one nickel for defense until a permanent cease fire was declared

“I will be damned if I’m going to give another nickel to the Netanyahu government in order to continue this war against the Palestinian people.”  — February 13, 2024, by John Nichols; The Nation

Just yesterday, Biden said that “There would be no red line for Israel.”  He takes this cowardly position even in the face of a horrible death toll and as Israel prepares another major offensive designed to kill as many Palestinians as they can in Southern Gaza.  Then Netanyahu spits in Bidens face and says that “Victory is close.”  The Israel Defense Force won’t be “getting off the gas” and eliminating Hamas in Rafah is a “prerequisite for victory.”  — NY Post, March 11, 2024

Let me add that not only do I hold Biden complicit in the genocide going on in Gaza but also for the number of soldiers killed in the Ukrainian War with Russia.  This war could have been prevented by pursuing more diplomacy with Russia.  Instead, we have a sitting President who is still dumb enough to be spouting the Domino Theory of Communism.  He tells us that if Russia defeats the Ukraine they will soon be after Europe and then America.  I had thought only fools still believed this theory, but Biden spouted it in his SOTU speech the other night.

One empirical study on the validity of the Domino Theory was done in 2009.  Using spatial econometrics and panel data that cover over 130 countries between 1850 and 2000, Peter T. Leeson and Andrea M. Dean empirically investigated the democratic domino theory.  They found the following:

“We find that democratic dominoes do in fact fall as the theory contends.  However, these dominoes fall significantly “lighter” than the importance of this model suggests. Countries “catch” only about 11% of the increases or decreases in their average geographic neighbors’ increases or decreases in democracy.  This finding has potentially important foreign policy implications.  The “lightness” with which democratic dominoes fall suggests that even if foreign military intervention aimed at promoting democracy in undemocratic countries succeeds in democratizing these nations, intervention is likely to have only a small effect on democracy in their broader regions.”  — “The Democratic Domino Theory: An Empirical Investigation” by Peter T. Leeson and Andrea M. Dean,  American Journal of Political Science, Vol. 53, No. 3 (Jul., 2009), pp. 533-551

Keep in mind that this is only one study, however politicians routinely use this theory to justify intrusions and violations of other country sovereignty all over the world.  The real truth is not a fear of communism but a fear that our capitalistic hegemony over the world will be put at risk.  But I am divulging from the main issue.  Do I vote for Biden who exemplifies the policy of continuing never-ending wars or Trump who will attack minorities, attack immigrants, attack women, attack veterans, attack disabled, attack people of other gender identities and attack every institution of democracy left in America?

Clearly Biden is the lesser of two evils.  But I will not vote for Biden.  I certainly will not vote for Trump even if my soul depended upon it.  I will vote for one of the independents who I admire.  So, say it now “You are going to throw your vote away.  A vote for anyone else but Biden is a vote for Trump.  Independents have no chance of winning and will only take votes away from Biden.  Do you want Trump to win?”  Eight years ago, I made this same argument against supporting Sanders rather than Hillary.  My arguments for Hillary became so aggressive that I lost several friends before the election.  People who have never talked to me since the election.  And who won?  Trump!  Trump won and I lost.  I lost on three counts.

  1. I lost the chance that Sanders might have beaten Trump
  2. I lost friends
  3. I lost my integrity by voting for someone I did not really like.   

Ironically by not voting for Biden this year, I may lose more friends.  Almost everyone I admire seems to have decided to go with the “lesser of two evils” argument.  Is there merit to this argument?  Can we really predict the future based on it?  Is it any more valid then the Domino Theory?  Here is another opinion besides my own with some reasons why this argument should lose its validity.

The “lesser of two evils” argument has been a mainstay of Democratic election strategy since 2016. The formula is clear: 1) Throw overwhelming institutional support at an often unpopular and watered-down candidate.  2) Tell primary voters not to actually vote for their desired candidate because they are “unelectable.” 3) After forcing through a politician that many voters did not want, tell voters to be a good citizen and choose the “lesser of two evils” in the general election.  This strategy is unsustainable, ineffective, and sabotaging the core of our democracy.

In 2020, voters accepted this premise.  “Unprecedented” times called for “unprecedented” measures, so people swallowed their tongues and checked their ballots.  This is how the Democratic party garnered record-breaking voter turnout for an aggressively mediocre candidate.  According to Forbes, 56% of voters in 2020 admitted to voting for Biden because he was “not Trump.”  The Democratic PACs (political action committees) leaned into this message, spending heavily on “anti-Trump” ads.

But this coming election is different.  Not only are Biden and Harris particularly unpopular, but voters are also beginning to understand that you can’t call the times “unprecedented” forever.  At some point, we enter into a new normal.   And with the rising stars of the Republican party, like Ron Desantis — whose platform and policies prove just as Trump-y as Trump himself — it is becoming evident that the DNC, if allowed, will make this pitch indefinitely.

The 2016 election was a trial run of this method for the Democratic party — they were testing the waters to see how far they could push the party’s base without facing repercussions.  Minor changes did take place following the election, like stripping some power from superdelegates to appease the outraged progressive faction of the party.  Still, when faced with lawsuits from Democratic voters, claiming that the 2016 primary was unjust, DNC lawyers tried to cling to their ability to choose the Democratic candidate behind closed doors without input from voters.  They argued that “the words ‘impartial’ and ‘even handed’ — as used in the DNC Charter — can’t be interpreted by a court of law.”  This laid the groundwork for the growing unabashed bias toward specific candidates that emerged first in 2020 and is now resurfacing for 2024.

In this primary, the Democratic party has become more aggressive than ever in pre-selecting the candidate for voters. For example, they are infamously attempting to shift primary dates to benefit Biden’s campaign and give him a stronger start in the primaries.  And despite the few challengers that are running collectively taking around 30% of the vote, the Democratic party is adamantly refusing to host a debate.

While in past primary elections, the Democratic Party maintained some semblance of plausible deniability when supporting candidates, in this election it is clear that the DNC is unequivocally backing Biden.

Voters are villainized for being apathetic toward a candidate that they did not even choose.  In 2016, op-eds stating “you do have an obligation to vote for the lesser of two evils” were plastered across major news outlets.   In 2020, Biden controversially quipped, “If you have a problem figuring out whether you’re for me or Trump, then you ain’t Black” while being questioned on a popular radio show.  In 2024, we are seeing a similar strategy play out again.

DNC Chair Jaime Harrison recently scolded Democratic challengers and third-party candidates, saying, “This is not the time to [sic] experiment.  This is not the time to play around on the margins … we got to re-elect Joe Biden.  We have to re-elect Kamala Harris.”  — Rhea Karty: The Lesser of Two Evils Argument Needs To Die, The Dartmouth, August 2, 2023

A poll taken back in January of this year gave the following results:

“Seventy percent of respondents – including about half of Democrats – agreed with a statement that Biden should not seek re-election.  Fifty-six percent of people responding to the poll said Trump should not run, including about a third of Republicans.” — Trump vs. Biden: The rematch many Americans don’t want, by Jason Lange, January 25, 2024

I am going to join the ranks of those who are sick and tired of having to choose between “The lesser of Two Evils”.  A choice where I was not given any real say in the making of.  In the words of Patrick Henry,

“For my own part, I consider it as nothing less than a question of freedom or slavery; and in proportion to the magnitude of the subject ought to be the freedom of the debate.  It is only in this way that we can hope to arrive at truth and fulfil the great responsibility which we hold to God and our country.  Should I keep back my opinions at such a time, through fear of giving offence, I should consider myself as guilty of treason towards my country, and of an act of disloyalty toward the majesty of heaven, which I revere above all earthly kings.” — St. John’s Church, Richmond, Virginia, March 23, 1775

So, there you have it my friends.  I am not going to allow the Democratic Party to keep running their game on me.  If Biden loses, we may forfeit any democracy we have left in this country.  However, if Biden wins, the Democratic Party will continue their support of unpopular wars and the propensity to elect people not popular with the majority of voters.  I have heard many people say that they do not want either man.  Yet here we are folks.  Both sides feeling like they are choosing between the lesser of two evils.

I have made my choice.  Choose now for yourself.

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John’s Ties – A Quilt Story

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My wife Karen finished her first quilt about two weeks ago and entered it into a Quilt Show in Coolidge Arizona.  Karen had joined a Quilt Club in Coolidge about three months ago.  Every Thursday she drove to Coolidge to work on her quilt.  She learned a lot from women there who had been quilting for many years.

As it turned out, they have a yearly quilt show.  It is over two weekends in February and March of each year when Coolidge also celebrates Cotton Days.  I encouraged Karen to put her quilt in the show.  She needed encouragement as she did not feel that her quilt would stack up well against the others in the show.  The other problem she faced was whether she would be able to finish it in time for the show.  Karen can really focus when she needs to, and she spent the last month or so working almost full-time on the quilt.

Karen and I had volunteered to help take down some of the frames and other items used to hang the quilts.  We arrived there at the end of the show on Sunday at 4 PM.  As Karen walked into the club, several women took her excitedly by the arm and brought her over to “John’s Ties”, the name of her quilt.  You cannot imagine how surprised she was when they showed her that she had won the ribbon for “People’s Choice Award” for her quilt.  I simply said, “I knew it.”  It was beautiful and she had put a ton of time, (more than 500 hours I believe) into it.  Did I mention all the accessories and paraphernalia that she also bought for quilting.  Whoever invented this craft must have become a billionaire on the myriad accessories that you can buy.  At one point, I thought we might have to take out a mortgage on our house to help keep Karen quilting 😊.

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But let’s back up a year or so.  Let’s begin at the beginning as they say.  How did Karen get into quilting?  How did my ties become a quilt?  Here is the sad but true story.

IMG_20240309_122503668 (1)In 2021, we decided to sell one of our houses.  We had small homes in both Arizona and Wisconsin, and we were snow birding between each.  Six months in one and six months in the other.  We started out snow birding in 2010 when we sold our Minnesota home and bought homes in Arizona and Wisconsin.  The two homes reflected our disparate needs.  Mine was for cool weather, plenty of green and blue and out in the country far from traffic.  Karen’s preference was for sunny skies, warm days and somewhere she could lie in the sun for a good portion of the year.

We both shared a desire to be no closer than fifty miles to a large city and we wanted small homes with minimum upkeep.  With the idea of sharing time between two homes, we thought we would have the best of both worlds.  We would each get our preferences met at least six months of the year.  The strategy worked great for nearly 12 years.

IMG_20240304_092611105Unfortunately, as they say time and tide waits for no man or woman.  We both got older.  We both quit working even part-time and the maintenance on both houses seemed to increase with each passing year.  Thus, we stood on the brink of a decision.  Which house should we sell.  Did we want to go sweltering heat or frigid cold?  No bugs and no water in Arizona or clean air and blue water everywhere you look albeit with bugs that could carry you away in Wisconsin.  An older house with more space and room or what Karen called her “happy home” with everything on one floor in Arizona?  Such decisions require the wisdom of Solomon.  We decided to toss a coin.  No actually, I decided to give into that old adage that “A happy wife makes a happy life.”  Thus, it was goodbye Wisconsin, here we come Arizona.

This of course meant that a great deal of accumulated STUFF would have to be gotten rid of.  If you want to know about stuff, be sure to watch George Carlin’s monologue on it.  If is available on YouTube and runs for about five minutes.  Well, the old house in Wisconsin was stuffed full of stuff.  It took us about a year to think about getting rid of the stuff and develop a viable strategy for doing so.  Thus, we finally started closing our eyes and tossing things into a bin for donations.  When it came to my closet, I donated boots, shoes, suits, jackets, and many other treasures.

IMG_20240309_121809871One day while tossing things, I came to my tie rack.  I had been a management consultant for nearly twenty years before going back into education.  The needs of that job required that I looked like I could make money and even had some money.  My suits were better than average and several of my shirts were custom made.  However, it was with ties that I went crazy.  I only wanted ties that stood out and looked like I came from royalty or at least money.  All of my ties were made of silk and many if not most of them were designer ties.  No micky mouse ties or ties with golf clubs on them for me.  My ties were classy and artistic.  When I picked up the rack of ties and looked at some for the first time in ten years, I could hardly think of donating them to people who I knew would never appreciate them.  One of the ties I purchased while working with Chevron in San Francisco, I paid three hundred and fifty dollars for and that was in 1992 dollars.  That’s what happens when you are making too much money and lose your common sense.

I brought some of my ties out to show Karen who was busy throwing her stuff in a Goodwill basket.  I said “Karen, I don’t want to give these ties away.  I still could not bring myself to part with them.  Do you think you could make something out of them?”  I had in mind a giant Rubik’s cube or some type of Andy Warhol collage.  Karen took one look at them and exclaimed loudly “Quilt.”  She then bundled them up and went back to throwing stuff away.  The fact that she had never made a quilt before did not deter her.

IMG_20240309_121816720A few days later she told me that she had an idea.  She had found a design for a kimono, and she thought she could slice and dice my ties into a number of what quilters call squares.  Each square would use a tie and each would be different.  Some would be female kimonos and some male kimonos.  She thought using silk was great and that I had enough ties for the job.  I wondered how long this would take but she was not sure.  She estimated that she would need 80 or more squares for the quilt.  I began to regret giving them to her.  I would be dead and buried before I ever saw my quilt.

As it turned out, the squares alone took between two to three hours each to make.  Add time for learning quilting techniques via YouTube, going to quilting shows, and attending quilting classes and this quilt took well over a year to make.  Don’t forget the money to buy the accessories that quilters seem to love.  I tried to calculate how much money I would need to sell the quilt for to break even on materials, accessories, and time that Karen put into it.  I figure $50,000 dollars or so would just about do it.

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Well, that is the end of the story folks.  The quilt is now on our bed.  I have hired a Brinks guard to watch over it when we are not home.  Karen has a list of things that I can no longer do on the bed, like take naps on top of the quilt, fold my clothes on it, eat on it, etc.  I guess if I ever want to sell it, I will have to keep it pristine.  By the way, do any of you know anyone who might want to buy a “People’s Choice” quilt for $50,000 dollars?  Karen says that if we could sell it she could buy a Gammill Statler Long Arm Quilting Machine for $42,999.  I believe that is the sales price.  She says it is a bargain at that price.  😊

The picture below illustrates the paper piercing pattern that Karen used for each quilt square.  Some kimonos were male and some were female.  I am sure that I am leaving out much of the sewing and work that goes into quilting.  I am also sure that I would never have the patience for such an endeavor. IMG_20240309_095842438_PORTRAIT

What Will History Remember Me For?

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God came to me in a vision last night and said “John, what do you want to be remembered for?”  I started thinking of all the good things that I have done.  I then started thinking of the 1000 or more blogs that I have written.  I thought of the four books that I have published.  I thought of the people that I have helped.  I thought of the speeches and presentations that I have given.  I thought of the classes and courses that I have taught.  I thought of the companies that I helped when I was consulting.  I had visions of all the great places that Karen and I have visited.  Soon I came up with a list of things that I really would like to be remembered for.  I had at least one hundred things on my list.

God I called out; I have my list.”  God replied back.  “John, I am sorry, but you only get one thing.”  “Only one thing I questioned?”  “Yes, said God, only one thing.”

“Okay God, but is that fair?  I feel like I have done many useful and productive things in the world.”

God replied, “Well, Einstein only gets to be remembered for E=MC2 and Theodore Sturgeon only gets to be remembered for “Fahrenheit 451” despite the over five hundred books he had written.  Beethoven is mostly remembered for his 9th Symphony and JFK is remembered best for his comment that ‘Ich Bein Ein Berliner.’  That is the way it works John.  I do make some exceptions, but I do not think it is warranted in your case.”

“God”, I said. “I don’t understand the logic of all this.  Many of your people have done so much good work in their lives, myself included and you mean all we will get to be remembered for is one tiny little thing”

“John, most people will not even get to be remembered for one thing.  You should consider yourself special that I am granting you ONE thing to be remembered for.  People have short memories and if I allowed everyone to list all the things that they wanted to be remembered for, no one would remember anyone.  By keeping the list to one item, you will be remembered and that is why you should choose wisely.”

“OK, God, I will get back to you.  This is going to take me more time than I thought.”

After God and I ended our conversation, I thought more about what he had said.  How do I pick out the ONE thing that I would really like to be remembered for?  Should I take a poll among my blog readers?  Should I ask all my friends?  Should I ask my wife Karen what she thinks?  How to decide?  Maybe Chat GPT would have the answer?  I will ask it.

Chat GPT “How can I pick what I want to be remembered for?”

Chat GPT Replied:

Deciding what you want to be remembered for is a deeply personal decision that often reflects your values, passions, and the impact you hope to have on the world.  Here are some steps to help you identify what you want to be remembered for:

  1. Reflect on Your Values: Consider what values are most important to you. Is it kindness, creativity, justice, or something else? Your values can guide you in choosing what you want to be remembered for.
  2. Identify Your Passions: Think about what activities or causes bring you the most joy and fulfillment. Your passions can be a good indicator of what you want to focus on in your legacy.
  3. Consider Your Impact: Reflect on the kind of impact you want to have on others and the world around you. Do you want to be remembered for making a difference in people’s lives, advancing knowledge, or improving your community?
  4. Set Goals: Once you have a clearer sense of what you want to be remembered for, set specific goals that align with your values, passions, and desired impact. This could involve taking concrete actions or pursuing certain achievements.
  5. Live Your Values: Actively incorporate your values into your daily life and interactions. This can help ensure that your actions align with what you want to be remembered for.
  6. Reflect Regularly: Take time to reflect on your progress and reassess your goals and priorities. As you grow and change, your aspirations for your legacy may evolve as well.
  7. Share Your Legacy: Consider how you can share your values, passions, and accomplishments with others. This could involve writing a memoir, creating art, or simply sharing your story with friends and family.

Remember, your legacy is not just about what you achieve but also how you live your life and the impact you have on others. It’s a process that evolves over time, so allow yourself the flexibility to adapt and grow as you work towards shaping the legacy you want to leave behind.

I must say I am always impressed by the ideas that AI will give in less time than I can blink my eyes or roll over and go back to sleep.  Nevertheless, I do not think that in this case it will be helpful.  My problem is to narrow down and prioritize what I think the ONE thing is that I want to be remembered for.  Now if Chat GPT could do that for me, it would be very helpful.  If only God would allow me TWO things, my life would be so much simpler.

I decided to think more about the problem and get some input from others.  I asked my spouse Karen, “What do you think is the one thing that I should be remembered for?”  She replied, “I think it would be your compassion and kindness for people you don’t even know.  Of course, you are not that kind and compassionate for people you do know.”  “Sorry, I asked.”  I next asked my good friend Socorro.  She told me, “Without a doubt it is your kindness and compassion for all the people of the world.  Except of course, those people you don’t like which includes Trump supporters, Republicans, lawyers, used car salespeople, insurance agents and…”  “That’s enough Socorro, I think you have given me something to think about.”  Next up were two of my best male friends.  I asked both of them the same question.  I got pretty much the same answer.  I tend to be kind and compassionate to people I like but not so much to people I dislike.  What was it Jesus said about it being easy to like people who like you but not so easy to like assholes?

All these replies left be in the middle of nowhere.  God was awaiting the one true thing that I wanted to be remembered for.  I was more lost than when I started this journey.  I decided to talk to God some more.

God, do I really have to be remembered for anything?”  “Look John, it was really more of a suggestion.  The majority of the human race will never be remembered for anything except maybe stupidity.  You are welcome to join the club of the ‘Not-Remembered’ for one darn thing if that is what you want.”  “Let me think about it more God okay?  Is there any rush?”  “Looking ahead, said God, I think you are probably safe for the next year or so.  After that I would not push your luck.  That scuba diving trip you took was not the brightest idea in the world, but I had your back on that one.”

After weeks of more pondering, more struggling, more interviews with strangers, relatives and former students and clients, I finally hit upon an idea.  I would toss a bunch of letters into a basket and draw out one at a time.  I would then see what they spelled.  I would rely on the great Karma of the universe to tell me what I should be remembered for.

The first letter I drew out was an S.  Not a bad start I thought.  Maybe I would be remembered for being Smart.  I next drew out an A and then another S.  SAS, SSA, ASS?  I did not like the looks of that last word.  Someone once told me if you start off your day with meeting an asshole, you might be having bad luck.  But if everyone you meet is an asshole, maybe you are really the asshole.  My days seem to tend to the latter.  Was the Universe trying to tell me something?  Maybe if I drew out a U next it was trying to reflect my belief that you should never Assume anything.  I would not mind being remembered for that thought.

I selected again and it was an E.  I knew it.  I was going to be remembered for never assuming anything.  I have so often criticized Karen for making unfounded assumptions.  I would go down in history as the “man who did not make assumptions.”  I picked another letter but this time, Karma was all wrong.  I drew an L.  That threw me out of the Assume position.  What I now had was Ass_ _ l e.  The letters were not rolling my way.  Maybe I should give this stupid idea up.  Or maybe start over again.  But that would be cheating.  I decided to draw again.  I next drew an H.  I now could spell Assh_le.  Was Karma going to spell out Asshole?

I have never been very good at scrabble.  Maybe I was missing something.  My ex-wife and sister were both scrabble experts.  Maybe I should give the letters I have to them before I pick again and see what else they could spell besides Asshole.  If any of my readers are following along so far, what else do you think the letters I have drawn so far could spell?  An online six letter word generator gives me the following possibilities: hassle, lashes, shales, sheals.  I don’t really know what these mean except for the word “hassle.”  I suppose many people think I have hassled them at one time or another.  I will draw one last time.

I stir the pot of letters up.  I close my eyes.  I reach in and pick out a letter.  Without looking, I drop it and pick out another one.  I pull the letter out.  I look at it.  I am astounded.  You would never believe the letter that I pulled or what it spelled.  I will accept my Karma.

I turned over and drifted back to a deeper sleep.  Life can be one great dream or one bad nightmare.  Some nights you don’t know which one it will be.  I hope I can remember what the letters spelled out when I wake up tomorrow.

Twelve Useful Thoughts to Live By

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Why twelve you may ask?  Probably because I am tired of lists of ten.  Or perhaps because there are twelve eggs in a dozen.  In any case, here is my list of one dozen thoughts that I believe will help you to live a happier and healthier life.  If you find that any of these ideas are not useful, please send your complaints to Dr. John Persico Jr. and I will give you a full refund for any problems you have incurred by adopting these ideas.  That will be right after Trump pays off all the debts he now owes.  😊

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  1. The Greeks had it right with the Golden Mean; “All Things in Moderation.”   Fanaticism and extremism in any thing will probably make you miserable and unhealthy.

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  1. Question all assumptions. Remember, assume makes an “ass out of you and me.”  There is a good reason for not assuming things.  Assumptions are the enemy of logic and fact finding. 

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  1. You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. This is a very old thought, but it rings true more often than not.  The phrase was first printed in 1666 in “Piazza universale di proverbi Italiani”, or, A common place of Italian proverbs and proverbial phrases by Giovanni Torriano.

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  1. Watch your money as though you are going to live forever but live each day as though it were your last. Here the advice is to be frugal when it comes to spending and saving money but somewhat profligate when it comes to living.  I do not think this means that you should go bungee jumping off of Mount Everest but living each day fully is in accord with many of the messages we receive from the Bhagavad Gita, the Tao Te Ching, the Bible, and other wise books. (See my list at the end of this blog)

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  1. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. Not a terribly profound sounding piece of advice, but very difficult to implement.  When adversity strikes as it will to all of us, do you fall to pieces, or can you see the silver lining in every cloud?  Can you turn adversity into something positive and life affirming?  This bit of advice may just help to keep you optimistic and positive about life until you come to your final day.

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  1. This piece of advice comes from my father who probably never read Edgar Allen Poe. I received both good advice from him and bad advice.  This is one message that I never forgot and in this day of misinformation, lies and disinformation, it is a very valuable thought.  He told me “John, believe nothing of what you hear and half of what you see.”   I use this thought to help me check out what people tell me and what I read.  I do not assume they are right or wrong.  I simply look for corroboration and supporting evidence before I accept anything as true or false.  In terms of seeing and believing, cognitive science has proven that “believing is more likely to govern what we see than the opposite thought that “seeing is believing”.  Eyewitnesses are seldom reliable and often report wildly different versions of the same event.

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  1. Love is the most important thing in the world. By this I do not mean passion.  Othello in Shakespeare’s play said, “I am one who loved not wisely but too well”.  People today use the word love to apply to everything from their dog to their cellphones.  Loving wisely applies to how we treat others.  It has nothing to do with things or events or what we own.  Jesus made love for others one of his two most important commandments.  Everything great in the universe begins and ends with love.  Love is the most precious thing in the world, but it cannot be put in a bottle.  Love is spread by compassion, mercy, joy, and happiness but consumed and destroyed by jealousy, envy, hatred, and greed.

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  1. Never say never or at least never say it too often. The older I get, the less absolutes I find in the world.  Absolutes create a paradox.  Never say never contradicts itself.  We must learn to live with paradoxes for though they may sound contradictory, and they are, they can still teach us something.  For instance, light has found to be both wave and particle.  How can this be?  See (25 Fascinating Paradox Examples.)  By the way, this statement teaches me to be careful when I say that I will never do something, or something can never happen.  Why constrain our lives by having too many “Nevers” in them?

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  1. The more you study something, the more complex it gets. My advisor in graduate school gave me this bit of wisdom.  I have also found that the older I get, the less I know.  I think this finding relates to the first thought.  We start out thinking about something and assuming it is very simple.  As we learn more about it, we find that it is much more complicated than we first thought.  The older we get the more things that this applies to.  Thus, the older I get, the less I know.

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  1. Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive.  This bit of wisdom comes from an early nineteenth century Scottish author, Sir Walter Scott, a best-selling writer of novels, plays, and poems.  The quote is from Scott’s epic poem, “Marmion: A Tale of Flodden Field.”  A man pursues a complicated plot to attain the love of a rich woman.  He is unsuccessful.  This bit of advice can help lead us to the value of directness and honesty in our relations with others.  Any other path will usually lead us down a dark road that ends in despair.

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  1. Judge not others lest yea be judged yourself. It is not easy to live by this admonition.  Jesus himself was guilty of violating his own precept.  He judged the Pharisees and called them hypocrites and vipers.  In general, we are best lived by not judging others.  We will be happier contending with our own lives which will keep us pretty busy.  However, there are times when we must judge others.  For those times I offer the following three rules.
  • Judge frugally. Don’t be hasty to judge anyone
  • First look for other options to summary judgements
  • Always be open to other possibilities and that your initial judgement may be found wrong

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12.  Do unto others as THEY would have done unto them.  The traditional “Golden” rule says to do as You would have done unto you.  This is good advice except that it ignores the fact that THEY are not You.  It is much better to use what some have called the “Platinum” rule and do unto others as THEY would want to be done to them and not You.  In practice, I try to keep both rules in mind

I hope you find these ideas useful.  You should also look at the list of “Wisdom” books that follows and see how many of the 100 you have read.  I suspect none of us will have read all of them, but you should have read at least some of them.  Another thought I learned in business was not to reinvent the wheel.  There is no reason to create your own wisdom when there is so much great distilled wisdom already out there.

These books were identified as the best wisdom books in the world, based on recommendations from world experts, sales data, and millions of reader ratings

100 Best Wisdom Books of All Time

If you have any suggestions for other wisdom books or wise thoughts that you would like to share, please post them in my comments section.