Last week I turned 70 years old. This was quite a milestone for a guy who once did not think there was any life beyond thirty. This week, I attended the 52nd Nobel Conference at Gustavus Adolphus College in St. Peter Minnesota. I would bet Minnesota has more towns named after saints than any other state or perhaps even country in the world. One wonders why these early Scandinavians who settled in this area of the Midwest needed to pay so much homage to saints. Knowing as many Lutherans as I do (My spouse belongs to this crazy cult of Christians) I would have thought that they would have named more cities after composers. We should have dozens of cities with names like: Bach, Beethoven, Brahms, Praetorius, Vulpius, Schein, Schütz and of course Handel. Is there a Lutheran who has not song the Halleluiah Chorus? However, I digress.
Monday night this week, Karen and I watched the “Great Debate” live on Facebook or YouTube. The debate featured the two presidential candidates for the USA in their first head to head confrontation. The purpose of such debates is to demonstrate the candidates’ positions on key policy issues and to highlight their competency or lack of competency for the job. However, everyone knew or expected that the debate might deal with everything from sex to gender and even past indiscretions of the candidate’s spouses. The true wild card (besides Trump) was the moderator. In the past, the moderators have been unable to control the debaters and this fault was even more egregious with Trump. Thus this debate had the potential of a no-holds boxing much with no rules that would make an MMA (mixed martial arts) match look tame.
In round one, Hillary came out first and as Trevor Noah noted gave the first lie of the evening. She said “Donald, it is good to be here with you tonight” or something like that. The first round was tame with each candidate feeling the other out. Like two boxers probing each other to see where the weak points were they were both careful to be courteous and to look presidential.
Of course, as is now well known and thus shall not be endlessly repeated, the debate went downhill from there, as least as far as Trump was concerned. If anyone thought that he could “stay on topic” or demonstrate an even rudimentary knowledge of policy and positions, I will be happy to sell them the Brooklyn Bridge. His supporters must be either delusional or stupid. Only sycophants or as we used to call them in school “ass kissers” like Giuliani and Christie would have thought that Trump looked anything but the sexist and bigot that he is.
Hillary won every round as Trump made a fool of himself in the following areas:
- Appearing unprepared
- Bragging about not paying taxes
- Bragging about his bankruptcies being smart business
- Continuing to insult women and call them names
- Continually interrupting and shouting over the moderator and Hillary
- Having no concrete plans or ideas that were practical or feasible
Subsequent polls now show Hillary back up by several points and Donald on the decline again. However, it is too early to declare the game over as there are still too many people out there who flip flop every day and who seem to change their minds depending on which way the wind is blowing.
People with Passion can Change the World for the Better
Traveling down to St. Peter on Tuesday to pick up my friend Vic who was going to the conference with me, I finished another one of the Great Courses by the Teaching Company. This one was called “The Passions: Philosophy and the Intelligence of Emotions” by Professor Robert C. Solomon. This was an audio course that you play in your car. I have completed several of these now and the quality of these courses is very high. The speakers are outstanding and the lectures are usually quite enthralling. These courses make long trips much less tedious and as a bonus you learn something about life. I learned about the importance of emotions and as opposed to my old idea that emotions (like Spock thought) were useless impediments in life. I now appreciate how much they add to my life. Life without emotions would be a world without color.
On Tuesday and Wednesday along with my good friend Vic Ward, I attended the 52nd Nobel Conference which was titled: “In Search of Economic Balance.” It featured many illustrious and highly respected economists such as: Dan Ariely, Orley Ashenfelter, Paul Collier, Deirdre McCloskey, John List and several other well-known economists. After every lecture, there was a panel discussion where the speaker and several of the other economists had a chance to discuss and interact. Following these discussions, my friend and I debated, discussed and summarized what we thought were the most important points of each lecture. I attended eight lectures, six panel discussions and numerous discussions each evening with Vic.
On the way back from St. Peter, we stopped Jim’s Apple Farm when we saw a sign that said “Next exit, Minnesota’s largest candy store.” I bought several treats for Karen and the guys at the library in Frederic. Jim’s lived up to its billing. It may just be the largest candy store in the US. It is certainly the largest candy store I have ever been in.
I returned home late on Thursday and had a brief respite before traveling out again. On Friday, Karen and I went to New Richmond to attend the 10th Annual Regional Caregivers Conference at the Wisconsin Indianhead Technical College. The theme this year was “Finding Hope, Humor and Heart in Caregiving.” The keynote speaker was Elaine Sanchez, author and co-founder of Caregiverhelp.com.
Karen and I both attended Elaine’s keynote speech and then Karen went to a session on music therapy while I attended a session on “Coping with Anger and Guilt in Caregiving” that was also given by Elaine Sanchez. I have to say that Ms. Sanchez was one of the best speakers I have ever heard in my life. The major thrust of the conference this year was dealing with people who are getting old (Karen and I) and how to handle people with conditions such as Dementia, Delirium, Alzheimers and Depression with love and compassion. My background as you might know has little to do with such medicine. However, with Karen and I both passing the 7th decade of our lives, the future has an increasing probability that one or the other of us will sooner or later face a debilitating condition that will require the other of us to provide care and support. Thus, the purpose of attending this conference was for us to better learn the basics of caregiving for the elderly.
Karen having spent thirty years of her life in Home Health Care is much better grounded and infinitely more knowledgeable than I am in this area. Many of the ideas in the conference sessions were basic for her but for me the opposite was true. I had my eyes opened and many of my concepts about conditions such as Dementia have now been thrown out the window. I cannot begin to describe how much I learned at this conference and how valuable the ideas were for me.
Perhaps even more important than the knowledge and theory I learned was the fact that Karen and I are both committed to continuing our journey through life together no matter what obstacles are thrown in our way. Karen had a mammogram on Monday of this week and when we returned home from the conference on Friday, we found an envelope in the mail from the clinic. The results were not entirely positive and she now has to go back to the clinic for some follow-up tests. Karen’s mother died from breast cancer so this is a particularly threatening and scary area for her. Each day seems to bring good news and bad news and a never ending challenge to stay positive in the face of the difficulties that growing old poses. I am sorry to tell you but one does not grow old like fine wine at least in the physical domain and often not in the mental domain either.
The week is now coming to a close. We have visitors from out of town today and Sunday may just be the first day this week where nothing is happening. But looking back on the week, can anyone tell me what ties these conferences, debates and courses together? What do the subjects of politics, economics, passions and care giving have in common? Four seemingly very disparate themes, yet a common thread clearly run through all of them. Like a mosaic or kaleidoscope, the more I journey through life, the more apparent the interconnectedness of all life is.
Donald Trump will soon be ancient history and like Joe McCarthy will be relegated to the garbage bin of American political life. His supporters will disappear as the political landscape is placed back into a better equilibrium with life and nature. Hillary Clinton will become the first woman in American history to be elected president. The clown that called her a crook and liar will become a laughing stock and an embarrassment to the people that supported him. Few people will admit that they voted for this bottom feeder.
Life will go on. Baby Boomers will continue to age. Many will suffer from some form of Dementia. The major problem of American life will turn from dealing with economic issues to how we can take care of so many elderly people who have no money and cannot take care of themselves. It is a question that politicians, economists and caregivers must all have passion about or we will have a national catastrophe of epic proportions. If we do not pay attention to these issues, we will have a Great Depression but it will not be an economic depression but a Depression of Care and Love for our growing elders.
Time for Questions:
What did you do this week? Was it a good week or a bad week for you? Did you learn anything new this week? What did you learn? Do you enjoy life or find it boring?
Life is just beginning.
I guess we have all heard that tired old bromide “Today is the first day of the rest of your life” but if it is not then what is it? Today may not be the first day of life for some people, it may just be the last day.
Aging Capriciously 