In 1996, I predicted that the United States of America would have its first woman president no later than the year 2004. There were a number of notable women in congress at the time and the USA was long overdue for its first woman president. It is now 2019, and we still have not had a woman president in the USA. We are beginning the 2020 elections and we have a number of strong intelligent women on the campaign trail for the Democratic Party Presidential candidate.
Perhaps not surprisingly, the political pundits are saying that this election year a woman cannot beat Donald Trump for the office. The suggestion is that a woman might be selected for the Vice Presidency but not for the Presidency. A man can beat Trump, but you know how woman are, they just can’t take the heat.
“I now announce myself as a candidate for the Presidency. I anticipate criticism; but however unfavorable I trust that my sincerity will not be called into question.” — Victoria Woodhull, 1872
In 1872, Victoria Woodhull became the first female presidential candidate while the former slave Frederick Douglass was her running mate. The record shows that no one even bothered to count their votes. It is a safe bet that women did not vote for anyone since they did not get the right to vote until June 4, 1919. It is also a safe bet that in 1872, the KKK was doing all it could to keep African American men from voting. Despite their efforts, the percentage of voters who were Black in 1872 was at a high-water mark that was not surpassed for many years. In fact, after 1872, the number of Black voters declined as the Federal Government abandoned African Americans in the South and let the notorious Jim Crow laws be enacted.
“America is false to the past, false to the present, and solemnly binds herself to be false to the future.” — Frederick Douglass
In 2008, Hillary Clinton was the first woman to be nominated by a major political party as their presidential candidate. During the election year, those opposed to her called her a bitch, dyke, castrator, liar, crook, hypocrite, racist, traitor, Nazi and narcissist.
“I’ve seen both candidates attacked based upon physical characteristics, both attacked based upon personality traits, both attacked based on past decisions. The one element that separates the two is that Clinton is also attacked for being a woman, and Trump is not attacked for being a man.” — Jennifer Mercieca, a historian of American political rhetoric.
My first-born child was a girl. She was born in 1968 and we named her Christina. People always asked me if I was disappointed that I did not have a son. The thought of disappointment never crossed my mind. I was proud to have a daughter and both my wife Julia, and I were determined to give her every opportunity that we would have given a son. When she was a young child, she received as many “boy” toys like trucks and erector sets as she did dolls and playhouses. She was inundated with books and just as many were about science as about other subjects that might have been considered traditionally female subjects.
When she was old enough for sports, I spent time ice skating, bicycling, swimming, skiing and canoeing with her. We once took second place in a father daughter canoe race. When she was in high school and wanted to be a cheerleader, we also encouraged her to play some sports and not just stand on the sidelines and cheer for some boys. I did not want to let society stereotype her, and I wanted her to believe that she could be anything she set her mind to. Doctor or nurse. Pilot or flight attendant. President or President’s wife.
The United States of America prides itself on being the land of liberty and justice. The home of the brave and the land of the free. The home of democracy. While we brag about American Exceptionalism, 101 countries have had a woman elected either as president or prime minister. Excluding female monarchs, over 150 women since 1918 have been elected or appointed head of state. Meanwhile in the United States of America, we have not even had an elected woman vice president.
And of course, this year is not the right time for a woman. We need to select a guy because only another guy can beat Trump. It is not a woman’s role to be president, at least not in the Land of the Free. The Democrats with several woman candidates seem to think that the best we can do is select a woman as a running mate for the male presidential candidate. It is said to be imperative that we select a man if we really want to beat Trump.
“Of all the indignities Donald Trump has imposed on Democrats since he decided to run for president, the fact that he has convinced many of them they dare not nominate a woman to oppose him is among the worst.” — Ed Kilgore, Intelligencer, Sept 20, 2018
I have watched some of all three Democratic debates to date. It is clearly my opinion that Warren is the most intelligent, coherent and poised of all the candidates. My wife also shares that opinion with me as does a large percentage of the American electorate. I have qualms with every one of the Democratic candidates. Not one of them is without some problems in terms of policy or procedures. But I will not vote for anyone just because they can beat Trump. Neither will I vote for a candidate on the basis of race, religion, age or gender.
Dear Daughter,
I am sorry I lied to you when you were growing up. In America, the dream that you can be anything you want to be is for men only. This country is terribly divided but is less divided on the issue of whether or not a woman is qualified to be president. Most people seem sure that she is not. I should never have set you up for failure by telling you that a woman could be President of the United States of America. Our country is not ready for a woman president. Maybe in another 100 years or so, we will have the intelligence and open mindedness to see that women are the equal of men in politics and many other areas of life. Until then, please do not lie to your daughters and set them up for heartache and disappointment. It would not be easy for them to be called a bitch, liar, hypocrite, feminazi, dyke, crook and other insults like the ones that Hillary had to endure.
Love, your father.
“When a man gives his opinion, he’s a man. When a woman gives her opinion, she’s a bitch.” — Bette Davis
“We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. We say to girls, you can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful. Otherwise, you would threaten the man. Because I am female, I am expected to aspire to marriage. I am expected to make my life choices always keeping in mind that marriage is the most important. Now marriage can be a source of joy and love and mutual support but why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage and we don’t teach boys the same? We raise girls to see each other as competitors not for jobs or accomplishments, which I think can be a good thing, but for the attention of men. We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings in the way that boys are.” — Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, We Should All Be Feminists