
I love music and I love the numerous varieties of music in the world from hip hop to classical, from Norwegian music to Chinese music, from Blue Grass to opera. Like food, I have never met a music I did not like. Of course, that does not mean, I have never heard a particular piece of music that I did not like. Music is like anything else, there is good music and there is music one does not care for. Karen plays music and is fond of learning a new instrument or taking part in a music jam, choir or sing-along. She is a participant while I am an observer. Alas, I have no talent in the musical arena and so I content myself with listening.
However, I think my listening style may be somewhat unique. While others sip deeply from a fine piece of music, I enjoy listening to the same piece played by many different musicians and in many different styles. I can sit for hours listening to the same piece played by an assortment of artists with a myriad of instruments, vocals and rhythms.

I find the creativity in how a piece can be played and the many different ways that a piece can be played to be fascinating. I have sat and listened to the Ave Maria played by fifteen different artists and each one brings something different to the song. I have listened to more versions of Carmen than I can think about. From Bizet’s traditional Carmen, to the American Carmen Jones to Beyoncé’s Carmen, each version has its own virtues and vices. Music makes the comment that “Variety is the spice of life” to be an absolute truth. Today, I would like to illustrate this aspect of music with a song that I fell in love with called Malagueña Salerosa. A short background on the song courtesy of Wikipedia:
Malagueña Salerosa also known as La Malagueña is a well- known Huasteco or Huapango song from Mexico, which has been covered more than 200 times by many performers.
The song is that of a man telling a woman (from Málaga, Spain) how beautiful she is, and how he would love to be her man, but that he understands her rejecting him for being too poor.
If, like me, you enjoy the lyrics to a song as you listen to it, the following is the English translation:
Graceful Malaguenan
What beautiful eyes you have,
beneath those two eyebrows
beneath those two eyebrows
what beautiful eyes you have!
They love to watch me
but if you don’t let them,
but if you don’t let them,
not even to blink.
Graceful Malagueñan.
I long to kiss your lips,
I long to kiss your lips,
Graceful Malagueñan.
And to tell you, beautiful girl,
that you are stunning and bewitching,
that you are stunning and bewitching,
like the pureness of a rose,
like the pureness of a rose.
If, for being poor, you look down on me,
I agree you are right,
I agree you are right,
If, for being poor, you look down on me.
I don’t offer you riches.
I offer you my heart,
I offer you my heart,
in exchange for what I lack.
Thus, to illustrate my observation about variety and the endless ways that one can find variety in the world (for that is the real message of my blog), I have selected three versions of Malagueña Salerosa. The important point which I see over and over again is that there is an endless variety in the world. There is no limit to imagination, innovation and creativity. Even the same song, can be performed endlessly and never be boring. People often wonder why they should write on a subject when it seems that there are a thousand books written on any topic you can think of and perhaps now an additional million blogs.

My answer is that every one of us has a different and unique way of looking at the world. Your biography, your story, your view on ethics, your views on management or your views on child raising are unique. Just like your DNA is unlike any other DNA in the world, it is impossible for you to be a carbon copy of anyone else. Even if you wanted to, you could not exactly copy anyone else. So why bother to try? The excitement we all bring to the world lies in learning to be ourselves. It is a job I have been working on for over sixty years. I sometimes think that there is a conspiracy out there to deny us the originality that we all possess. We must struggle against the chains of conformity which are everywhere we look. Imitation may be the sincerest form of flattery or the path to millions of dollars but it surely is not the path to creativity and innovation.
My three versions of Malagueña Salerosa include what I might say vocally is a “perfect” version sung by noted opera tenor Placido Domingo. His delivery is masterful. His ability to hit high notes and low notes beyond mortality. I have listened to Domingo and Pavrotti many times and while I enjoy both, I think Placido’s voice achieves a clarity unlike any other tenor that ever lived. So please listen to a least a little of his version of Malagueña Salerosa before you continue reading:
Can you imagine a performance more hauntingly beautiful than what you have just heard by Placido? If you wanted to copy or surpass his style and delivery, I would say it would be impossible. That is why, our only choice in life is to be ourselves and enjoy our own uniqueness. We must do what we have a passion for and do it as well as we can. We can always improve ourselves but we can never be another Placido.
The next version is a more traditional version of Malagueña Salerosa played by three Mariachis. This version has an authenticity that somehow I find lacking in Placido. I can see this as being the “real” version that was song by the love-struck young man as he tried to win her love. While Placido excels on the vocals, this version gives us a stronger set of instruments and more of the true Latino flavor that I find missing in the Placido version.
The third and final version of Malagueña Salerosa is by the Mexican rock band Chingon. They contributed the song “Malagueña Salerosa” to Quentin Tarantino’s movie Kill Bill Volume 2 and a live performance by the band was included on the film’s DVD release.
You of course, will have noticed after listening to Chingon that they had no intention of imitating Domingo or any strolling Mariachis. Their style is a blend of Rock, Mariachi and Ranchera, but they put their own stamp on it with their singing, tempo and beat.
I am not an expert musician and I could not begin to tell you why or exactly how each of these three versions differs from each other. But while I may not be able to explain it, I can feel it as I am sure you can as well. Like a good wine or a good meal, I may not know how to explain what I taste but I certainly know what I like.
I dread the thought of doing anything over and over and over again, unless it is for the sake of practice and to develop technique and ability. Why continue experiencing the same thing, when I can savor and experience so much variety in the world? Variety is one of the things I value most in life. It has taken me years to be able to see how unique the world is. No same old, same old, unless we are trapped in our minds and routines. The world offers a smorgasbord of treats and excitement to those who are open to challenge, change and risk.
I leave you with one last short (1.5 minute) video which you must see. If you have ever been afraid to experience something different, to go somewhere foreign or to listen to a new style of music, this video will help you to reflect on a life lived with no risk. It is very effective at portraying the fear of risk but also the upside joy that risk can bring. It is called Always Dare:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJ2WbDahaaM
“No pleasure endures unseasoned by variety”– Publilius Syrus, 1st Century BCE
Time for Questions:
What variety do you experience in your life? Do you live a life open to variety? How do you find “new” things in your life? What are your thoughts about going someplace new? Listening to some new music? Would you be willing to try raw oysters, truffles or pickled pigs feet? Have you ever tried any of these? Why not?








Donald Trump is not America. Donald Trump is a creation of a media empire that is out of control. A media that trends sensationalism, exploitation, fear and paranoia to feed a 24/7 system of so called news reports. A system of glitz, glamour, ads, sound bites, commercials, sex appeal and worthless trivia that has little or no educational or informational value. It is a system that neither informs nor educates. It is a system that thrives on the likes of Donald Trump. It is a system that thrives on the exotic, the unusual, the strange, the bizarre, the kinky, the outlandish and the far out. Donald Trump is all of these things but he is not America.
Donald Trump is not even a real Republican. The party he claims as his own is one he and his small band (less than 9 percent of the total registered voters in the USA)* has managed to co-opt. The Republicans that I have called friends over the years want nothing to do with him. They are as appalled as the Democrats are at Donald Trumps rise to popularity in the media polls. Americans however should not be surprised at this. It is not the first time that a fraud, demagogue and charlatan has captured the media stage. Looking back through US history, we can find similarities between Donald Trump and the likes of Aaron Burr, The Know Nothing Party, Huey Long, The Silver Shirts, and of course Joseph Mc McCarthy. None of my Republican friends would avow affiliation with any of these characters. They are not America and neither is Donald Trump.
Every country in the world has its right and left-wing extremists. It has been this way for hundreds of years. Fortunately, in the USA, our political system usually kicks out the extremists and the middle ground or centrists have always trumped the left and right-wing fanatics. Due to our political system, we have escaped such maniacs as General Franco, Benito Mussolini, Joseph Stalin and Adolf Hitler. There are many drawbacks to our political system and chaos often seems to be a major characteristic of it. There are many people who would discard such a system in favor of stability and security. These people would buy such a political system at the cost of freedom and liberty. In many nations throughout the world, citizens select benevolent dictators rather than trying to deal with the vagaries and uncertainties that are often characteristic of a US style democracy.
Donald Trump says that he will create the largest wall that the world has ever seen, but it won’t keep out immigrants. It will only keep out ideas and innovation. Donald Trump supporters include the misguided and fearful who believe that if we only had less poor people, less immigrants, less refugees, less minorities, less disabled people and less women in power that “America Would Be Great Again.” This is a delusion held by those who dream of a bygone era when “Father knew best, Blacks knew their place and women stayed in the kitchen.” The myth of “The Good Old Days” is almost impossible to kill in a population fed on media mediocrity and where real history is either not taught or understood. Donald Trump will not bring back the “good old days” because the good old days where not really that good. Donald Trump will not “Make America White Again.”
What all of Trump’s bombastic speeches fail to note is that America is still great. Unfortunately, the things that make America great are hidden behind the media pronouncements of Donald Trump and his ill-advised followers. The ceaseless stream of bad news, crime, bizarre and weird news that titillates so many also deprives us of being a well-informed populace. In addition, our outlandish media system simply serves to hide the many great values that the USA stands for.
The message of hatred and intolerance that spews daily from Trump is something that one could pity Trump for if it were not so dangerous and belligerent. It is hard to feel sorry for the bully that is kicking other people when they are down. Somewhere though, we know that such bullies are really cowards. Their intolerance and lack of compassion towards others is driven by fear and insecurity. No matter how big and bad the bully seems, they are the biggest cowards in the playground. It is time to put Donald Trump and his followers in their places. There is no room in America for bigots, sexists and racists who are intolerant of and lack compassion for others. We need to keep America great by letting the world see the true values that guide our nations and not the distorted hate filled messages that the media loves to display.















